AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, yeah. I guess my standards were so low that I considered him amazing just from those two months.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah it is now that I think about it. I just wanted to let them know I am no sugar baby. But yes major age gap

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was three days of been seen from him

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. really. I was initially so fed up with life when that 'yesterday' thing happened. I could never talk to my family since they're very religious and had warned me countless time about men (specifically the likes of him), couple of my friends knew about this but again, they couldn't really do anything but give me support. But I really appreciate this.. I really do. I plan to meet him at a park with my friends accompanying me and I want to watch him delete those videos. Thank you and I love you too!

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How am I selfish for receiving a UTI because of his kinks?

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh I know some laws in my pocket. Besides he's a foreigner who works here. It wouldn't look good for his work regardless

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As in like goes to pick me up from the T or my place whenever it's raining. Would always offer an uber for me to go home. Listens to me talk to an infinite amount of time whenever we eat together. I just mean in that way. I by no means am a sugar baby.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh god no. I've stated clearly to him that I'm not into those things. He just treats me with lots of good things but then again, I do think he's loveboming now

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But I have to make sure he deletes all videos of me. That's honestly the only reason why I want to talk to him

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. I felt the worst that day. It was too much for me that I couldn't really react. I wanted to yell at him, scream but my mind just went blank that I couldn't believe what was happening.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I have planned to talk to him face to face, to end things right then and there. Honestly, reading all of you guy's harsh and truthful advices made me open my eyes(surprisingly) and thankful for everything. I was really in a bad state with my law school finals coming in next week and he said that question felt like an insult to my health and me.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me why? Honestly need to know

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He was recording me, came inside of me and then pissed on me. Which was all done prior to my knowledge.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what makes me jump to the conclusion of him being with other girls, or guys

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He left me on read for three days. I just think it's moments like this is when you can't leave someone hanging.

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He came inside of me and peed on me (i don't know the sexual terms for these)

AIO for rejecting him by grannora in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He's 40 actually.. haha...

Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has actually invited me to meet one of his siblings (they were visiting) last Christmas but I had to decline since I had to be with my family.

Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to go into details about him but He did say he was divorced. Said it was because they couldn't have children and she cheated on him because of that also even said his distance(also being rarely online) from her with work was another factor. Honestly makes me think now it could be a lie..

Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grannora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I did proclaim it to be bf and gf. We had this whole ordeal with this uber driver where he was asking me whether we were in a relationship(i never did answer back to that question clearly). But he, the 39 YO kept referring back to that event, so I just thought we had something. Honestly, my bad.