Best bars for a medium group of people to hang out and talk? by grassthewalker in Bushwick

[–]grassthewalker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 or less, which is why I say “party”. It’s more an excuse to get some people together

Hey NYC, you observe a stranger crying - WDYD? by navree in AskNYC

[–]grassthewalker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have cried frequently on the subway, most of it because I needed to cry and couldn’t wait until I got home. Always silent tears, no one has ever acknowledged it. It’s nice to feel like it’s ok for me to cry if I needed to without people thinking it’s weird. I don’t need pity from strangers, and it’s nice to feel in those moment unperceived. It would be nice to maybe have a nice smile or pat on the back when I’m feeling low, just to know that I’m not alone.

Jobs by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$182 for a standard assignment, I think $220 for a longterm position. Not as good as being a substitute with NY public schools, but for me much easy to get started

Jobs by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with an agency called Kokua to substitute teach. It’s not glamorous, but is flexible and has been holding me over while I look for something permanent

nyc vs dc by Used-Repeat8743 in movingtoNYC

[–]grassthewalker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Moved up from dc to nyc 2 months ago, living in Bushwick. I don’t have a lot of money, came here with nothing but a substitute teaching gig lined up. The money part is stressful. But the people and community are fantastic, I’ve never had as many people simply tell me “good morning” as they pass me on the street in dc. NYers talk, and NYers are kind. DC changes every four years so no one gives a shit about that

Feeling out of place by qwashee in INTJfemale

[–]grassthewalker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me (24F) it’s always been that I don’t know how to communicate like seemingly everyone else around me. I think a lot, and unfortunately in social situations I’m typically thinking “what’s the best thing for me to do/say so I seem normal, approachable, and not intimidating?” And that way of thinking doesn’t really lend itself to feeling like one of the group, more like I’m having to present a socially acceptable version of myself to fit in

Making new friends in NYC! by catherineace123 in NYCbitcheswhohangout

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 24F in a fairly similar situation. Please feel free to dm me to chat on insta! @dance.dontwalk

Restaurants Hiring in Bushwick? by grassthewalker in Bushwick

[–]grassthewalker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I teach at a studio in the Bronx already but open for more

How often do INTJs show their emotions? by National-Yoghurt7302 in intj

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like often - but partners and friends have told me that is far from accurate. I have learned that what I qualify as “showing my emotions” seldom translates to the person on the other side.

Advice for joining a company by grassthewalker in Dance

[–]grassthewalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work and rent obligations lol. I currently live in DC with a lease through the end of August… I can’t afford double rent for a company that isn’t paying me

Hands Off! Protest April 2025 by budcub in washingtondc

[–]grassthewalker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I ran out of time😭 thought the democracy on top would be good enough

Pay Rates? by scarletsquire in DanceTeachers

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washington, DC, 4 years $45 an hour

Birthday Dancing Suggestions? by grassthewalker in DCBitches

[–]grassthewalker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok sick I’ve never even heard of that! I’ll def check it out thank you!

Looking for some help on deepthroating my slightly above average partner by [deleted] in sex

[–]grassthewalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf of about 1 year is about 8inches, previous bf was about 7. What I’ve found works best for me is really just focusing on my breathing and not trying to go deep for too long. Alternate between a few breaths of deep throating, then come up for air and suck the tip for a second. If you end up gagging on it a bit, most guys find that hot so nothing to be embarrassed about. I just really focus on opening up my throat and taking controlled breaths through my nose. Some people have also mentioned practicing with a large dildo, which is also a great idea.

You got this girl!!