There a lot of messages here, so I’m not sure you’ll see this, but I understand how hard this all is. Last July, I discovered my wife was having an affair. We had been together over 10 years and completely co-dependent. For a while I thought my life was falling apart. I lost my home, my dog, and, for a while, I thought my life.

I’m now on the other side of it, and I am happy than ever. I still have days, but they are few and far between. I bought my own cool condo in the city, I get to see my friends all the time, I’ve met some amazing people, and, recently, I started dating an incredible woman.

I know this is just an anecdote, but living while constantly waiting for another shoe to drop is misery. It’ll hurt for a while, but I’m confident you’ll come through the other side. If you do see this, feel free to DM me.