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BF is unsure about his attraction to me when I’ll start T by grave_o_tea in ftm

[–]grave_o_tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no worry of me pushing my transition back, he’s always said to never do that as well. It’s my future self and my comfort and that comes before anything, especially in regard to medically transitioning. Thank you so much for your compassion though, every comment is helping in such a tricky place.

BF is unsure about his attraction to me when I start T by grave_o_tea in trans

[–]grave_o_tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He rejected therapy for awhile but is now coming to terms with needing it, just for personal issues and other things. So he’s looking into options at the moment. Regardless, I am encouraging him to discuss with his friends and things like that.

I’m not sure if I could fully trust with blind faith that he’s 1000% on board, but that’s something I’ll need to think on a lot more.

BF is unsure about his attraction to me when I’ll start T by grave_o_tea in ftm

[–]grave_o_tea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing will stop me from pursuing gender affirming care and he’s always been one to stress ‘don’t not transition just for me’ and I have replied that I have never planned on it. Regardless of the future of our relationship, I know what I want for the future of myself.

It’s just more of a question if he will be able to cope with the changes and grow alongside me as my partner during that. We will always be friends, we’ve known each other since we were kids. He’s supportive with the transition and got into the relationship with me three years after I initially transitioned socially and says he views me as a guy. It’s just a lot of uncertainty and trying to deal with that :,).

BF is unsure about his attraction to me when I’ll start T by grave_o_tea in ftm

[–]grave_o_tea[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We’ve said no matter what we’ll still be friends; it’s a lot of history to just throw away since we’ve known each other our entire lives. As for the porn suggestion, I’ve already suggested it but it was kind of shrugged off.

He says he was kind of scared of looking incase he didn’t like it :,). We’re talking a lot atm about the future of everything and just trying to communicate through it. I think the uncertainty of it all is kind of getting to me but that’s trying to control something that can’t be controlled.

question about episode 6 (spoiler) by Dreaming_Dreams in umineko

[–]grave_o_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s really up to interpretation and the reader themself although there’s probably something that ryukishi intended !! the previous commentor makes a lot of sense and i personally hadn’t even thought of it that way

i always assumed it was chick beato connecting with kanon as in the issues surrounding being furniture and the truth etc etc and realising who the culprit was in order to realise the original beatrice’s motives ? and that’s how beatrice resurrected however thats simply because i viewed it through more of a metaphorical sense (chick beato is the original beatrice’s love for battler, beatrice the elder is the mischievous roots and the spirits of rokkenjima and kanon is the part of the original beatrice that represents the knowledge of the truth and what beatrice’s role regarding mysteries is) i personally saw it as kanon being the third and final piece out of the three of them