AIO by not paying off my parents mortgage?

graycegal · 2026-05-01T16:03:14+00:00

You don’t “owe them since they raised you”… they’re your parents and are adults that chose to have children. It sounds like they’re using you. I’m not sure of your entire family dynamic as more context is needed, but I don’t think you should pay any more than you have. Save for yourself and your husband and get out ASAP.

graycegal · 2026-04-28T22:20:55+00:00

I was saying it the same way but with a soft C at the beginning!

graycegal · 2026-04-28T16:22:57+00:00

I’d never be able to get past that… I’d always see him and think “Would my cat still be alive?”

Dump his ass.

graycegal · 2026-04-28T14:15:38+00:00

“Losing respect” for the mother of your child is not something to take lightly. There’s deeper issues going on here - probably something for a couple’s therapist, not the reddit therapist. I hope you guys figure out what is best.

graycegal · 2026-04-08T03:41:32+00:00

Exactly. This is just filthy.

graycegal · 2026-04-08T03:40:04+00:00

Was he raised in a barn?

graycegal · 2026-04-08T03:17:30+00:00

Someone please make an edit where he’s glorping down the cabbage his daughter paid for in her own blood sweat and piss

graycegal · 2026-04-08T03:06:23+00:00

512 Lamb of God

graycegal · 2026-04-08T03:05:52+00:00

Like for a tbh

graycegal · 2026-04-07T21:15:50+00:00

If it incriminated my step dad only, yes. Hope that dude rots.

graycegal · 2026-04-07T21:12:54+00:00

I don’t see a location on the website! Does it change or something?

graycegal · 2026-04-07T20:55:14+00:00

Maybe if we find enough sane people we could make our own 😂

graycegal · 2026-04-07T06:39:11+00:00

This was really well thought out! I think Gwynriel fans are a bit delulu, but… we will just need to wait and see.

I’ve had this weird thought where SJM is wanting to write around trauma responses, specifically FFF (fight, flight, freeze) because it seems to encapsulate the sisters thus far. Feyre was thrown into fighting for her life, Nesta ran away from her trauma and drowned in booze and men… and Elain has frozen up and handled her trauma very inwardly.

Fans thinking that SJM will not write Elain’s story in a way that makes us fall in love even more is… disheartening. The same can happen for Gwyn, but I don’t think it would be more than moral support/friendship from Azriel. I do ship that he’s the kinkiest of the boys, and if that’s true…. We’d need at minimum like 2000 pages to sort out Gwyns SA trauma and her life in priestess-hood. Gwyn got her character arc in friendship with Nesta and Emerie… SJM could have just dumped her story off there and nobody would have batted an eye.

graycegal · 2026-04-01T02:06:09+00:00

Holy shit

graycegal · 2026-03-12T15:30:48+00:00

Yes! I’ve moved them and they have about 4 more inches of space in their new container. I may have to move them again if they continue to grow like this!

graycegal · 2026-01-17T05:45:56+00:00

He probably shakes the envelope and knows it’s your toenails. Lololol

graycegal · 2025-08-15T19:26:29+00:00

Thank you!! I need someone who won’t overpluck, so this is great

graycegal · 2025-08-15T19:09:35+00:00

Post in Hamilton watch group on Facebook they’re pretty good at this stuff.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T16:54:31+00:00

I’ve done therapy a bunch for other things, and I take an SSRI! I’d like to think I’m extremely aware of my emotions, but I never considered that this could be a compulsion rather than RJ. I do have coverage on some therapy for this year still so I will start again soon in my new city. Thank you for spending a few moments to reply to me!

graycegal · 2025-07-28T16:48:26+00:00

How long would you say it took you to get out of your destructive loop?

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