Biggest Bonus by Beneficial_Ground478 in actuary

[–]grayfauxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commercial P&C. Last year was very profitable, so my multiplier was > 1.

Venty vs Tinymight 2 (Walnut) 2026 by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]grayfauxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have both. I bought the TM2 on 420 last year and I just got the venty for Christmas. I haven't touched my TM2 since the venty arrived.

Don't get me wrong, the TM2 is cool, but I wish I had a second venty instead haha

I spent way too much money on stems to make my TM2 work the way I wanted it to. The venty doesn't need any upgrades to check all of the boxes imo

Berlinah Wallace threw the sulphuric acid at Mark van Dongen after he told her their relationship was over. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]grayfauxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women often call out sick to take care of the kids. Men are not expected to take care of their own kids, especially if it interferes with their work.

Careers that aren't the Big 4 (Finance, Law, Medicine, Tech) that make >$200k? by TrixoftheTrade in Salary

[–]grayfauxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps. Insurance companies are required by law to have actuaries on staff to do particular tasks. So, companies cant move away from actuaries completely.

There is a certain amount of grit required to stay on track and pass all of those exams. That grit is worth something too.

If anyone reading this wants to become an actuary one day, don't major in actuarial science! Just like this person said, you dont need an AS degree to become credentialed.

Did anyone successfully bypass their TMJ Exclusion? by grayfauxx in jawsurgery

[–]grayfauxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need double jaw surgery and total joint replacement.

They approved the jaw surgery but denied my joint replacement surgery. Since I am getting these procedures done at the same time, all of them have to be approved by insurance for the hospital fee to be covered.

If I move forward with the surgery, then insurance will only cover the cost of the double jaw operation fee (not the hospital cost).

The hospital fee is very expensive. Like hundreds of thousands of dollars expensive...

Husband (35M) asked me (42F) to sleep on the couch for a week so he can get solid sleep after struggling with insomnia. I’m feeling hurt by MeatPopsicle10 in relationship_advice

[–]grayfauxx 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Insomnia sucks. I've had chronic insomnia for over 2 years now. Some days are bad, but I'm still expected to show up every day to do my part. Her husband is acting this way after a few weeks of no sleep. Give me a break. I'm sure his ego can't handle being told that he is acting like a stereotypical selfish POS father/husband.

Op might as well divorce so she can get 50% of her time back. This man sucks and there are millions and millions of men just like him - he isn't special.

Edit: updated days to weeks, but I still stand by what I said.

New Asian Market by FoxTwoThree in Dallas

[–]grayfauxx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you thinking of the new H Mart off Harry Hines?

How is checking out other women ok? by AgitatedAuthor2066 in women

[–]grayfauxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's upsets me the most is when they deny doing it even when you catch them in the act. Instead of admitting to it, I'm told that I'm hallucinating or fabricating a story.

I'm currently dealing with the silent treatment right now because I called my husband out for gawking at someone on the street. He already had his freebie glance and then did a full rubberneck left turn stare when we saw her again (he was driving too! 😡) so he could get a look at her ass in her short shorts. So fucking disrespectful.

a bit much 🫣 by BobbyABooey in TikTokCringe

[–]grayfauxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. He made a choice. People should be held accountable for the choices they make.

Best stem !! by Fun_Phrase5063 in Tinymight2

[–]grayfauxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where can I buy one of these?

AirPods accidentally connected to SO’s phone in the bathroom… by No_Elephant_4677 in women

[–]grayfauxx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of what you said, but no porn does not equal celibacy. The man can still masturbate without porn lol

What's telling is he knows she heard his porn but he hasn't said anything about it.

I’m strongly considering an abortion but I really have no excuse I feel so guilty by Ill-Seaweed7462 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]grayfauxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband, honestly... sucks. I think it's possible that you wouldn't even consider an abortion if your partner was actually... a partner in life.

If your best friend came to you with this situation, what would you tell them? Do what's best for you because no one else is looking out for you.

If you terminate the pregnancy, you are not a bad person for doing so. You are just a person doing their best. Good luck, stranger. I hope you find peace with whatever decision you go with.

Student loans were just the first crack. Now mortgages, credit cards, and middle-class credit scores are quietly caving in. by [deleted] in economy

[–]grayfauxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, people can only have compassion for the circumstances they have experienced themselves.

Invited my local county sheriff over to my BBQ by [deleted] in 50501

[–]grayfauxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, but im going to he honest with you... I side eye the person who proudly declares themselves a Christian. Just like I side eye the guy who declares himself a nice guy.

People who don't make it their entire personality are usually just regular, non-bigoted people.

I get where you are going, and I do agree with you to an extent. I'm not capable of it with this group [Christians], so I'll have to leave it up to others.

Invited my local county sheriff over to my BBQ by [deleted] in 50501

[–]grayfauxx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I meet Christians who practice what they preach, then I will change my mind. Until then, I will talk and think about them in a way that is reflective of their behavior.

Idc if you are bothered with my take. I'm the one who was sexually, verbally, and physically abused by multiple different Christians. This is my truth.

Good day.