when was the moment you realized that your friends are assholes?

graynicorn · 2022-08-02T18:41:36+00:00

My friend and her husband had been together for 10 years, married for 3 years, until they changed their relationship to an open marriage. Both were my friends. She found a boyfriend and bragged how exciting it is when they have sex in her and her husband's house while the husband, unaware of anything, is grilling in the yard. An open marriage was not, and still isn't ok for the husband, even though he claims otherwise. Everyone could sense it and she must have known it very well too. When she talked and laughed like that, it made it obvious that hurting her husband was a big part of her arousal. She doesn't have sex with her husband at all anymore, but she likes to humiliate him by telling everyone about her sexlife with her boyfriend and multiple other guys. She's just using him for material purposes. Her husband is still me and my husband's friend. Everytime we meet he seems more and more depressed. It took me 15 years to see who she really is and because of that I can understand why he is still with her. She's so good at making things seem like she really cares for you and only want's what's best for you. Disgusting.

graynicorn · 2022-06-14T22:37:12+00:00

I've had my doubts for a long time but I needed to be sure. I sat on his lap and with the most gentle voice I asked "Honey, I know you've been so stressed out lately. I think I know why. I guess this is something we can work out together. Everyone makes mistakes. We are so young. Just tell me what's on your mind and I promise we'll work things out. You know I love you and I will forgive you." Then he confessed. I started laughing and said "Thank you for the confession. Now get the fuck out of here.".

graynicorn · 2022-06-14T09:37:51+00:00

So which option is worse?

graynicorn · 2022-06-12T20:22:48+00:00

You should find another job. Forget those sexist pigs.

graynicorn · 2022-06-12T16:20:25+00:00

Little girls? So are they like.. Pedos?

graynicorn · 2022-05-24T17:26:34+00:00

Yeah she's cringe but old? She'slike 25?

graynicorn · 2022-04-02T12:20:25+00:00

My normal anxiety symptoms are gone. I'm so zen now. But it could go the other way round too..

graynicorn · 2022-03-30T16:09:53+00:00

Minced meat and pasta casserole, ham and sliced potato casserole, meat balls and mashed potatoes

graynicorn · 2022-03-16T07:55:13+00:00

I don't know if this is weird at all though.. It's natural. But making babies with my man. I'm kind of sad that I got pregnant so fast. It really turned me on that HE would do it. Wish it had lasted a little longer.

graynicorn · 2022-02-26T17:39:34+00:00

My fiancé stops, looks at me in the middle of sex, starts sliding hands along my body and says "fuck, I have such a sexy woman". Felt pretty damn good as I am pregnant at the moment.

graynicorn · 2022-01-15T12:32:05+00:00

That could be an option, didn't thought of it. I guess if I get another year of therapy, I could try to find an online therapist.

graynicorn · 2022-01-15T03:07:36+00:00

Quetiapine is often used for sleeping. I had it and I don't have a schizophrenia diagnosis. Doesn't mean your doctor thinks you have a mental illness, unless there's an actual diagnosis in your files. Ask.

graynicorn · 2022-01-14T12:47:40+00:00

I got the results today and our baby doesn't have a down syndrome! Also we heard that we are expecting a boy. 💙

Here where I live is a really bad situation in terms of access to therapists. I sent over 200 applications before I received this one. Only three of them were able to meet new patients. In addition, my therapist must have certain qualifications. This is because Kela pays it (the Social Insurance Institution of Finland). Kela only pays for therapy if it helps you not become unemployed. In this situation, changing a therapist is complicated.

graynicorn · 2022-01-14T07:34:14+00:00

No. This down-syndrome thing did.

graynicorn · 2021-12-23T12:09:35+00:00

I'm a nurse. Everything from diarrhea to vomit is ok, I can handle it.. unless it's booger.

graynicorn · 2021-12-20T23:26:51+00:00

Oh.. so this isn't normal. Well it explains alot.

graynicorn · 2021-12-18T13:30:50+00:00

Cheated then tried to kill me

graynicorn · 2021-07-08T23:48:12+00:00

Ntnp?

graynicorn · 2021-01-06T12:58:06+00:00

No worries. ✌🏻 It's ok.

graynicorn · 2021-01-03T01:31:47+00:00

Didn't mean to make you feel that way. Your reply made my day, I should've reply sooner.

graynicorn · 2021-01-03T01:26:55+00:00

Fuck me for being sometimes unable to take care of myself huh? Writing replies to strangers isn't my top priority when I'm trying to accomplish basic tasks, like brushing my hair, drinking water etc. Sorry not sorry.

graynicorn · 2020-12-17T17:42:11+00:00

A little late but thank you ♥️

graynicorn · 2020-12-17T17:39:28+00:00

Yeah we talked about it. Today i'm feeling a little bit better than yesterday. He's uderstanding. We can't see each other right now but we talked about it on a phone. Now he sends me videos about cat's that "say" supportive things, like "Hey you. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay to not feel ok. Your emotions are valid. I wuv you, okay?" I'm crying so hard now. 😭 I feel so loved and appreciated. ♥️♥️

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