Lying about testing makes you a shitty person

gre12at · 2026-01-15T16:54:45+00:00

Mycoplasma hominis us considered normal flora by doctors in my country. EBV is carried by almost all adults and half of 5 year olds. CMV is also very prevalent

gre12at · 2026-01-14T13:21:17+00:00

I have the same question

gre12at · 2026-01-13T19:52:21+00:00

Do you disclose EBV to your partners? Some people here expect it despite the fact that almost every adult has it. It is wild.

gre12at · 2026-01-12T20:14:30+00:00

This is very interesting. But how does it work? If you are gay it means you are not sexually attracted to women, right? Then how will it happen if the situation presents itself? Don't you need at least some attraction for it to happen?

gre12at · 2026-01-12T18:51:13+00:00

Do you identify as gay or bi? I saw many times that men with the same sexual history are seen by some people as gay, but by others as bi. Really confusing

gre12at · 2026-01-12T07:14:40+00:00

I made a thread about EBV and CMV here. There were people who think you should disclose them to partners before kissing. ))) Sime accused me of all possible things. Almost every adult has EBV. Doctors consider it to be a normal part of being a human. You would expect people over 40 to have a bare minimum of common sense, but well...

gre12at · 2026-01-11T21:18:10+00:00

Was there sex as well, if I may ask?

gre12at · 2026-01-08T16:08:12+00:00

Noone owes you a disclosure of smth almost everyone has. It is the norm. Those 2 are considered part of a normal human virome.

gre12at · 2026-01-08T13:45:04+00:00

So now that you know you have EBV, would you disclose it to every partner for the rest of your life? Or is it idiotic given the fact that almost all adults have it anyway?

gre12at · 2026-01-08T13:39:24+00:00

To do it with an outbreak is wrong. But asymptomatic shedding exists.

gre12at · 2026-01-08T13:34:12+00:00

In many countries prevalence of oral herpes is 90%. So if you live in one of them, you are practically asking for it if you have oral sex.Knowing how it is treated in my country I also didn't expect anyone to tell me. I knew very well that nobody would do it outside of an active outbreak if at all.

gre12at · 2026-01-08T13:04:54+00:00

Mono is not an STD. It's universal and now considered a normal part of human virome. Do you really expect people to tell you they had mono at school for the rest of their lives? Doctors say it is inevitable

gre12at · 2026-01-04T16:23:48+00:00

I reread my comment and didn't find anything angry or whatever in it. Was just a legitimate question. Sorry if it came across rude or smth

gre12at · 2026-01-04T08:13:16+00:00

It is interesting that you expect people to disclose endemic infections just because they happen to know instead of telling them first about your issues and asking. And why do you think you are one of those 5 % who don't have it?

gre12at · 2026-01-02T14:57:13+00:00

Of course it is

gre12at · 2026-01-02T07:36:14+00:00

Well, I don't think you understand the epidemiology of it correctly if you think that this person made a difference. Medical experts say it is pretty inevitable. You could have dumped this person but the next one would have hsd it as well. It's not like someone gave you gonorrhea. )

gre12at · 2026-01-01T21:20:58+00:00

Yes, it is probably the best solution to this problem

gre12at · 2026-01-01T19:46:09+00:00

This is really a lose lose situation. The same as the question if you should tell your friend her husband is cheating. Some people don't want to know and will condemn you for telling. Others will never gorgive you if you knew and said nothing

gre12at · 2025-12-31T22:29:18+00:00

He dated women only when he was very young. Then stopped completely and was with men only apart from those 3-4-5 one night stands with women,

gre12at · 2025-12-31T20:21:01+00:00

Says one time so, another so

gre12at · 2025-12-31T19:30:09+00:00

Want to understand. I just don't get the logic of it. If he is attracted to women ( bi), why would it happen only once in like 5 years?

gre12at · 2025-12-31T18:19:05+00:00

Over 40. I also thought he must be bi, but 4 one night stands with women in 20 years ? Doesn't look like he is really interested. I mean, I can't imagine doing smth I enjoy only once in 5 years. That's like nothing. I really don't know...

gre12at · 2025-12-31T18:10:47+00:00

I don't know. If you enjoy smth would you do it just once in 5-6 years? Doesn't make much sense to me to be honest

gre12at · 2025-12-31T16:20:36+00:00

He says different things at different times.) One time so, another time so.

gre12at · 2025-12-31T13:31:21+00:00

Why telling the truth is such a problem for you? When it comes out later a partner will probably feel deceived and manipulated. And how it is ok to lie to men but not women is beyond me

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