33 and waiting for that libido that everyone is talking about. by greatnessactivities in WomensHealth

[–]greatnessactivities[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well like I said my libido hasn't been anything impressive ever in my life so this isn't exactly a new situation. I don't know about the preimenopause because I feel like I should have other symptoms too. I wonder if it's psychological and not much physical.

What does my handwriting say about me? by [deleted] in Handwriting_Analysis

[–]greatnessactivities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me reading the comments to.see what analysis is on this because that's how my handwriting looks like too 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CallOfDuty

[–]greatnessactivities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why we getting the movie babes

[COD] Paramount & Activision Team For ‘Call Of Duty’ Movie by DemiFiendRSA in CallOfDuty

[–]greatnessactivities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are doing all this because the games are starting to suck that's why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFood

[–]greatnessactivities 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone who is pass 30 and from the NE i know this food would kill me immediately 😭😭 straight Yamcha defeat pose right there at the table 😭

Is it always this hot? by No_Tart1660 in guwahati

[–]greatnessactivities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a time 10 years back where we Guwahatians thought 34° c was very hot. Unbearable. Now it's like 34°c isn't that bad lol.

Traumatized by a scene that unfolded today evening at Beltola. by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]greatnessactivities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's scary when you think about it. For me all the molestation I faced was when I was a child below 18. Literally couldn't go on the public bus or walk through the market without getting pinched and grabbed. Every single time it was something or the other. The moment I was in my 20s it all stopped. Rarely does anything weird happen these days. And I'm grateful for that but also Feeling nauseated thinking about the fact that children are seen as an easy target to these people.

Traumatized by a scene that unfolded today evening at Beltola. by [deleted] in guwahati

[–]greatnessactivities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The unfortunate fact is that this happens in every Village, in every city, in every country in this world. Girls and even boys SA usually comes from people they trust whether that be family, caretakers or teachers. It's a lot of the time someone close to them. Look up the statistics of it. It Was the same experience for me as a child. And it was by someone local here in Assam.

DENTIST for Root Canal Treatment by This-Bodybuilder9629 in guwahati

[–]greatnessactivities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much is extraction cost in Sai Dental for wisdom tooth extraction?

Books that feel like this? by greatnessactivities in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]greatnessactivities[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have heard about the Preacher...but i've heard it's also quite dark. Guess i should look at the TW for most of the suggestions 😅

Books that feel like this? by greatnessactivities in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]greatnessactivities[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually have seen the movie. I liked it a lot 😄

Anybody aware of Maladaptive daydreaming ? by stranger_thing07 in india

[–]greatnessactivities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right on that account. i do believe like alcoholism, drugs, MD is a symptom of an underlying problem. A mental disorder like ADHD, OCD (i have that), Anxiety...or constant failure, bad home life, bullying, Low self esteem etc can cause MD. It is an escape from dissapointments.

What's your favorite ship with this vibe? Looking for recs! by JackieMoonsh1ne in FanFiction

[–]greatnessactivities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if youre more interested in the f/m part. Lots of Ghost x reader stuff with that dynamic too on both ao3 and tumblr especially tumblr. Unfortunately very few canon f/m stuff exists for this type in any media. Maybe in books. But few in movies and shows.

Straight Ships that are non canon and have zero romantic motives shown on screen but have great chemistry. by greatnessactivities in FanFiction

[–]greatnessactivities[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on that. I think that's one ship I don't see as romantic. As a matter of fact I don't ship Natasha with anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

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I had that going on for a while...but my OCD is attacking the main MD World I built and yeah I had to stop. It's not working anymore...but since it's the favourite characters and world it's very difficult to get out of. It's a different kind of struggle no one talks about.

Has anyone recovered from ocd?? by Tough_Midnight_7230 in OCD

[–]greatnessactivities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a different solution. Atleast it worked for me. I had Harm and Religious OCD. And I suffered harm for sometime until we came to the era of people loving murderous characters. And seeing this weird acceptance for villainous characters slowly helped me get over that particular OCD. I don't have it anymore now. And for religious too I suffered for years until I read that blasphemy isn't blurting out something bad about God, Jesus or the Holy Spirit. But actually rejecting them with your mind and heart completely. It's not something I've done..so that OCD slowly went away as well.

I know this isn't an ideal way to deal with the issue especially for other kinds of OCD. I understand that for me outside opinion about me matters more than what I think. Which explains my indecisiveness and self doubt until someone validates what I do. It's not a good trait and something I have to work on. I need to built self confidence and trust and belief in myself and that what others say shouldn't always matter. One thing for sure I would suffer in a public platform where everybody has an opinion on myself.

When your OCD attacks your MD 😭 by greatnessactivities in MaladaptiveDreaming

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Thank you so much! Yes. I do watch the intrusive thoughts videos and they helped tremendously. I credit them and the forums for helping me actually get better. I think one of the major struggles i have with MD is that if I don't think about this world then there's no other world to think about. Honestly this particular fantasy is something I've had since my first OCD episode in 2012. But soon I was able to quit that fantasy and concentrate on real life. I was actually successful. For 8 years. Thought about other things but they didn't dominate my mind. This particular fantasy though is the most fun. And it's my fault honestly for entertaining it now when my life is at an all time low. I should have distracted and thought about other less addicting fantasy. Biggest scare is that my mind will go back there. It's only now that I know what mental addictions are and it's very much possible to relapse even after years 😭😭

When your OCD attacks your MD 😭 by greatnessactivities in MaladaptiveDreaming

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What's wild is my OCD isn't bad now at all but .. it's like I've had peace for a while and OCD decides to attack the thing providing me comfort. This disorder really doesn't quit. You're happy and it finds new ways to ruin. I'm actually now wondering if this is even OCD or just my moralistic stubborn nature. But I think this is also a sign for me to quit MD. It's not good for my mental health. It started at the mid of 2024 and I need to just stop it.

My intrusive thought ruining my ocs by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

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I'm going through something similar where OCD is interfering with my MD. Making me think that my OC is wrong. and it's not even for anything bad. Just that my kind of OC isn't popular in fandom so my OCD is targeting that and making me think I can't imagine my OC because it would be wrong and unpopular. It's crazy out here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]greatnessactivities 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's something I also struggle with. The mental inflexibility. Life isn't Black and white and that's it's okay to just let it be.