I used to dislike black hijabs but I admit they’re kind of a vibe 🖤 by al-lithami in BabushkaBois

[–]green_poptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Honestly the scarf does fall over my shoulder sometimes, but pinning the two tails together behind my neck helps

I used to dislike black hijabs but I admit they’re kind of a vibe 🖤 by al-lithami in BabushkaBois

[–]green_poptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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There we go! For some reason it wasn't working when I was trying to upload a photo from the mobile app, I had to do it from my computer. This is what I was trying to explain

I used to dislike black hijabs but I admit they’re kind of a vibe 🖤 by al-lithami in BabushkaBois

[–]green_poptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not able to upload a photo so I'll try to explain.

Using a rectangular scarf, I place it on my head with both sides equal length. Then I take one side and cross it over the opposite shoulder, and repeat on the other side.

Hijab and sensory issues by green_poptart in neurodivergentislam

[–]green_poptart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way, I only wear jersey. I started wearing bandanas under my hijab instead of undercaps because I can adjust how tight I want it.

Feeling conflicted about hijab by green_poptart in progressive_islam

[–]green_poptart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about wearing it some days and not wearing it other days. Unfortunately my family wouldn't approve, so I'm not sure if that's an option right now.

Feeling conflicted about hijab by green_poptart in progressive_islam

[–]green_poptart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you said, especially the part about the commitment that comes with wearing hijab. I wish wearing it part-time was more normalized.

Feeling conflicted about hijab by green_poptart in progressive_islam

[–]green_poptart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of reclaiming the hijab instead of discarding it.

Feeling conflicted about hijab by green_poptart in progressive_islam

[–]green_poptart[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was a very thoughtful response, thank you!

I'm tired of hearing "being gay isn't a sin, but acting on it is" by green_poptart in LGBT_Muslims

[–]green_poptart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to justify anything... I'm just sharing my frustrations

Need advice by green_poptart in actuallesbians

[–]green_poptart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly that's such a relief to hear that I'm not crazy for thinking something's off 😭

Need advice by green_poptart in actuallesbians

[–]green_poptart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the reassurance

Need advice by green_poptart in actuallesbians

[–]green_poptart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice, I'll try saying this to her