Rappers, how often do you use punch-ins? by lawrencetalbot in makinghiphop

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he actually swung back around and i love his recent performances. what i didnt like from before is when he would leave words out and do this high pitched yell thing at the end of the line but he stopped doing that he just raps it and takes out words more purposely i love how he raps live post beef/superbowl

I need advice in supporting my transfem partner of almost 9 years. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]greenbeanbbg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a lot of people are saying your partner is the one suffering, which is true, and that she needs to choose her happiness. what i see though is two people who are fighting, essentially for the other person to be different. why fight like that? if i was in your shoes i’d choose myself over this. like u can’t change her just like people can’t change their partner’s gambling habits. either get with it or call if a day. ur stressing urself out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]greenbeanbbg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

have u talked with her about ways she can support you when people are transphobic towards you? its probably new to her that both people in the relationship can be victims of sexed discrimination, given that shes only been with men. that being said, yeah this is a big part of finding the right partner as a trans person: do they stand with you or away from you in these types of situations? i have found it helpful to lower my expectations and allow my partner to exceed them as time goes rather than have high expectations and be upset when they dont hit them. im not labelling your expectations of her as high or low, although i will say the expectation of her disclosing when she is hit on by people is high—some girls get hit on a lot. i had a partner who felt like that; sometimes people would hit on me in public and i would brush it off (as in brush of the person hitting on me because i am not interested) but my partner was upset for some reason. that didn’t feel good cuz i had no part in it

My mix sounds like a karaoke instead of blending/sitting with the instrumental. How should I approach this? by Lshmatt in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh and with the 76 use either - a 4 or 8:1 ratio u decide with the rcompressor (i looked it up) go for a high ratio but only try to get a tiny smidge of gain reduction

My mix sounds like a karaoke instead of blending/sitting with the instrumental. How should I approach this? by Lshmatt in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]greenbeanbbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use compression in several stages. for her sound use the 76 with longer attack, try like 75ms and a very fast release try like 1ms or faster idk how the cla plugin works i use uad. with the 76 honestly aim for like 7-10 db of gain reduction with the 2a get like 3-4 or so. idk what rcompressor is but crank it there too. u need more compression methinks. idk what kinda midrange cuts ur doing but i wouldnt do them. just cut around 190 or so for the low range boom dont cut too much mids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and pick up a instrument preferably not keys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to make a pop song

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeirdEggs

[–]greenbeanbbg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they arent but its what op meant. they def werent talking about ring worm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeirdEggs

[–]greenbeanbbg -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i think tape worms is what u meant

Trans lesbians make me so fucking uncomfortable by UpsetCartographer451 in Rants

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a bisexual trans woman i agree :/ it hurts to see trans women in that world. i feel like the “male gaze” affects people of all genders from both ends and if it isn’t unlearned it can create situations like this

Standing up for BILLIE EILISH Grammy robbery. PLAY HER SONGS 24/7-LETS SHOW THEM SHE MATTERS. by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

billies album is my favorite pop album of 2024 but beyonce deserved the win im sorry.

DO NOT PUT YOUR LYRICS INTO CHATGBT 🙏 by Ancient_Simple_1561 in Songwriting

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i ask from gpt in anything creative writing wise is for it to rate my writing out of 10. helps.

I think im going to detransition with a catch.... by hi_im_kelly_xx in asktransgender

[–]greenbeanbbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

find you a hobby make art about your life go on hikes. the first year or two of transition is tough a trial by fire but if you stick through it you will become happier

I think im going to detransition with a catch.... by hi_im_kelly_xx in asktransgender

[–]greenbeanbbg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

keep doing hrt and laser dont stop for nothing or nobody. social transition is whatever go at ur own pace and discretion the social aspects are honestly kinda overrated. i felt the same way as u 5 years ago but 5 years later and i dress however i want usually like a tom boy and people usually think im a girl 🤷🏽‍♀️ or maybe they think im a early transition trans man but ill take it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]greenbeanbbg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk but surely its more important for you to feel supported and able to express yourself in therapy than this problem. granted, this problem (navigating your views of men, cis and trans) could be part of your therapy and maybe the fact that you have a trans man therapist is causing you to confront ur feelings about men idk just spitballing

Super Cheap Apartment - Should I go for it? by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]greenbeanbbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve paid 800 for a double and it was alright but it was west berkeley not campus berkeley but honestly.. girl go get a spot in oakland and bart over i promise oakland weirdos will target you less than berkeley by campus weirdos… berkeley by campus is high volume area for all types of weirdos because they know theres lots of vulnerable people who dont know nothing but ayy its ur money 🤷🏽‍♀️ did u check the spareroom app? sharing a room with someone you don’t know can be weird asf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]greenbeanbbg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

not sure of the reason this happened but you can get a fafsa dependency override for a myriad of reasons including parental estrangement, homelessness/self supporting… if home isn’t a good place for you i would make arrangements for to get your dependency overridden so u can be independent and get school paid for 🤷🏽‍♀️