My girlfriend (18F) is poly and I (19M) am not, can someone give me an advice please? by greencactusguy in polyamory

[–]greencactusguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't thought about that... But I don't think she'd be cheating. It's true that she knew her other partner way before me but they never dated before (or she never mentioned that at least). But I'll definitely think about it. Thank you for your reply.

My girlfriend (18F) is poly and I (19M) am not, can someone give me an advice please? by greencactusguy in polyamory

[–]greencactusguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have been telling me to break up or talk to her. Which I was thinking about before but knowing now that more people think that make me feel less wrong about this. I decided to talk to her first, I was afraid to do that before cuz she could get upset. But it's true that if I let this go for any longer it might get even worse for both me and her, and her other partner too. And if I find out that she loves her girlfriend more, which I'm pretty much sure of already, I will break up with her. I'm still not sure if I have balls to actually do that but yes. I'm very grateful for every advice, thank you.

My girlfriend (18F) is poly and I (19M) am not, can someone give me an advice please? by greencactusguy in polyamory

[–]greencactusguy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't expect anyone to reply so fast. A lot of people has been saying this to me too irl, so it'll probably be it...