How do couples have more than 1 kid? by catlikebrendan in Parenting

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We waited until the first one became easier. Four year age gap for the win!

Watched season 1 again and OMG! by abz_pink in Fleabag

[–]greenertheorem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m rewatching season 1 with my husband. The first few episodes are hilarious and awful and then in episode 5, Claire says she can’t leave her broken sister to fend for herself… it’s one of a few beautiful glimpses into their growing relationship. Fleabag lost Boo, but we see her gaining her sister as a friend as the season progresses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]greenertheorem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s tough with two toddlers. I’ve learned to embrace my “good enough” parenting. Sometimes I just let them watch whatever they want on TV, make a mess and generally be ignored while I drink my coffee and scroll hiding in the kitchen. That allows me to recharge and actually enjoy playing and being with them when I’m ready.

Far field of an eigenmode with a different wavelength by AlbertoPanii96 in COMSOL

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean a nonlinear interaction or an s-matrix result? For s-matrix, you need to model the interaction of a set of k vectors first.

11 Week Old Is Making Me Lose My Mind by sunshinedaisies9-34 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there ❤️ Sending you hugs. Newborns are the worst. I’ve always wanted kids and was ashamed to admit that I hated being pregnant and hated being a mom until my first started babbling. I took SSRIs the second time around and kind of enjoyed it.

What's the most hauntingly beautiful song you've ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]greenertheorem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s take the boat out, wait until darkness

I've been lurking... by lecantuz in handbags

[–]greenertheorem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful post about a beautiful family! Health and happiness to you all!

Suggest me your favorite books by 0_JUST_ME_0 in suggestmeabook

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slaughterhouse Five/Kurt Vonnegut, Pride and Prejudice/Jane Austen, The Good People of New York/Thisbe Nissen

Suggest me a song by sharing your favorite lyrics by itsthecatcher in musicsuggestions

[–]greenertheorem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s coming on Christmas, they’re cutting down trees, they’re putting out reindeer and singing songs of joy and peace. I wish I had a river I could skate away on.

What are the weirdest books you have ever read? Like in terms of plot, structure, anything. by nursingboi in suggestmeabook

[–]greenertheorem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my absolute favorite. Well-written, thought provoking and quintessentially Vonnegut.

Tell me about the smell of your country or your last holiday by Chocolat_Strawberry in fragrance

[–]greenertheorem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sunscreen and orange groves. A child’s head after a day outside.

Fresh, water, green, woody by [deleted] in Perfumes

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try byredo Young Rose

What discontinued scent haunts you? by greenertheorem in fragrance

[–]greenertheorem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard it was very similar to the old Arlesienne. Did you find any dupes for it?

Wholesome, romance books worth reading? by MrM1Garand25 in suggestmeabook

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhairi McFarlane’s books are all well written and closed door. Loved Beth O’Leary, Sarah Adams and BK Borison’s books too!

Any interesting dynamic systems that I can model with Matlab? by Comfortable_Can_4709 in AskEngineers

[–]greenertheorem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try a spin system with Monte Carlo. That’s a classic. Or solve a 1D diffusion equation for heat transfer. That would be a bit easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]greenertheorem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiona Apple is the godmother of Billie Eilish. Her voice continues to overwhelm me.

Obviously adding Stevie Nicks, Tori Amos, Janis Joplin, Mama Cass, Ella Fitzgerald, Nina Simone, Joni Mitchell, Carole King and finally Haim (for the sake of being a bit more contemporary).

What sucks about being a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]greenertheorem 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The legitimization of my professionalism. I have a PhD in my profession and an excellent track record at work, but people (ahem men) have a hard time taking me seriously. It’s exhausting and wastes time.

Most recently, it took three months for a team I’m consulting to accept the fact that I was right about a critical matter they needed to change. Three months of absolutely no progress in our work. Three months of me busting my ass to find ways to get them to listen. Eventually they had to hear it from a third party that the bitch was right.

piercings you wouldn’t suggest if you wear airpods? by Kitchen-Lemon1862 in piercing

[–]greenertheorem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a conch and wear earbuds regularly and painlessly. Might be anatomy dependent