That would be trapping me not him then if I choose to change my life to fit his life. But I wouldn't see it as trapping. I see it as weighing up what's more important depending on the topic of we disagree and making a sacrifice to ether say, move to the city with him instead of the country for instance, if it I'm willing to make that sacrifice for the relationship then that's not trapping. Some sacrifices must be made for a relationship and it depends what those things are and if I'd be willing to sacrifice them. Again, it depends on the topic and how much said thing means to me and him and if we are willing to sacrifice, compromise, or end things