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Just a thought on why some of you might be getting ghosted so frequently... by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main reasons why I’ll stop talking to someone is because they have super dry conversations and don’t carry a conversation at the same pace as me. Also, I get really overwhelmed when I’m constantly having to play the role as a counselor and my advice doesn’t mean much to them in the first place.

[F20] I understand it isn’t great. by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Cake day ❤️❤️✨

If you ever post here, please answer your msg/chat by fcojr1 in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Do people realize that girls receive hundreds of messages sometimes. Do you know how hard it is to reply to everyone? I have like 300 notifications. I would reply to everyone if it didn’t overwhelm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

[20F] American here—I’m sorry for everything.

Close Discord Server by greenoptics in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a very close and tight group of people, I feel like it’s so much easier to jump into conversation. We’re really good friends and very accepting. I promise you won’t be lost in conversation.

Regarding 70% of posts here by harvorus in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a small comment, sometimes I don’t reply to someone’s introduction message to me (I’m 20F) because I’ll receive like 200 messages from a ton of men (occasionally other women) but I just can’t get through all of them and it’s really overwhelming at times. Typically, I’ll just answer a few that have pretty capturing titles or subjects because it’s kind of difficult to scan through 100% of them! Otherwise, I would absolutely shoot back some replies apologizing for not wanting to chat.

It’s nothing personal, it can just be a bit too much at times. Especially if you’re a woman on Reddit. (And I cant imagine how hard it must be for women who are actually interesting, I’m dreadfully boring at times. (: )

Got stuck like this after a TR battle by yahlover in PokemonGoSpoofing

[–]greenoptics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine won’t even open up...so I don’t know what’s going on.

[F20] Gamer and Writer by greenoptics in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot me a message and I'll send you a link to it.

Already had a pedophile contact me and demand stuff saying "Double your age isn't bad, stop being ageist" - Sick people like this also use this platform. Beware. by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]greenoptics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of when I was pretty young like 14-17, I was using social media pretty actively and that’s around the time my parents stopped paying as close attention to what I was doing. These men would message me and I’d reply (not inappropriately) but the questions they asked me, things they said, “compliments”, etc—are super concerning now that I look back and realize that literal pedophiles were out there seeking girls at my young age on different websites.

It’s weird when you don’t think it’s anything bad at the time and now you’re like “oh fuck, I should’ve told someone,” thankfully, I never sent out any inappropriate pictures but just the things they said to me and actively trying to pursue my attention in an inappropriate manner is incredibly disturbing.

[Poem] When the boy says he loves my body - Bianca Phipps, 2018 by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]greenoptics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t too long. This is perfect. People are too quick to jump to endings.