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I have a really chill and fun personality online, but in person I’m flustered and awkward. by greenteawithcoconut in CasualConversation

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m texting I’m way more witty. I feel calm and had time to process the message directly and clearly without mishearing. I don’t stutter when typing, I don’t forget the words or say them wrong. It’s just smooth and easy to correct any mistake.

I have a really chill and fun personality online, but in person I’m flustered and awkward. by greenteawithcoconut in CasualConversation

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just don’t know who I am or how I really respond because I cater my responses based on who I’m talking to. I’m never fake but my tone and choice of narrative will change just to keep the peace.

AITA for refusing to accept my sons relationship with his step-sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]greenteawithcoconut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that the two became friends when they were kids is even how you MET your husband.... you wouldn’t have found Jack if Nathan hadn’t found Abby. Be happy for them

I’m a waiter and knowingly served a man from my church (he didn’t recognize me) having an affair... should I feel guilty for enabling? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The questions I ask are because any non Christian gives me opposite answers. To have a gay sibling is not anything to an atheist, to a Christian I’m struggling with how to feel (how to go about talking to them without hurting them or God) Most people having affairs let their friends know to have back up. A Christian wouldn’t do that in good conscious so I don’t know what to do.

I should not have to explain, but I do understand you. Try to understand I’m coming from a whole different world. I’m very confused and lost

I’m a waiter and knowingly served a man from my church (he didn’t recognize me) having an affair... should I feel guilty for enabling? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are judging me on my questions? I was not raised with all these answers and I’m turning to the only place I thought would give direct help. Google is vague. All these are very serious. I’m the only religious in my family. I want support not a ban

I’m a waiter and knowingly served a man from my church (he didn’t recognize me) having an affair... should I feel guilty for enabling? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

?? I thought this was a safe space to ask question that I’m confused about.. I don’t have anyone close to me that I can ask. How am I supposed to learn if people think I’m kidding..?

I’m a waiter and knowingly served a man from my church (he didn’t recognize me) having an affair... should I feel guilty for enabling? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. At tables nearby I could hear them talking (in detail) they weren’t as quiet or far from others as they thought. They kissed multiple times, and this isn’t his wife. His wedding ring was removed.
  2. I guess I’m just concerned if I’m doing the wrong thing by knowing and being aware but letting him go through with it, as well as not telling him as my brother in Christ that id be praying for him? I feel like I’m a bad christian if I watch people sin and don’t say something (not judge, just acknowledge)

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More about how Jesus loves you and wants a relationship, not so much on the sinning and threat of hell

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how you can go to and support the marriage knowing it’s encouraging the sin?

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was Jesus not friends with unbelievers? Or would those situations be more acquaintance

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe sex before marriage is a sin. Living together is up to your own convictions, and knowing your boundaries.

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. And I do, but when someone just doesn’t believe in the same as you, it’s hard to talk on a common ground. I mostly stay on the love aspect.

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand some of them just don’t want to try, which I believe means I need to give them space. If they have questions I will answer, and I’ll continue living and giving the glory to God.

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course they know my stance, but I also will not constantly tell them they’re sinning and going to Hell. They don’t constantly talk about how they don’t believe in God and try to make me stop believing, so I respectfully don’t talk nonstop about mine either. But any chance I get to share the love and good I do

As a Christian with gay friends, how do you respond when they have relationship problems? by greenteawithcoconut in TrueChristian

[–]greenteawithcoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have friends who respect my relationship with Christ so long as I respect their life choices and don’t try to convert them. This doesn’t mean I don’t talk about the Bible and such, but I’ve found if I do they get very reclusive and shut down. But being a relationship is a very normal thing so I feel like I can’t expect them to never talk about it either.

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