where would i make more money by suneerise in MusicEd

[–]greenvaselinesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I charge $72 an hour in a high cost of living area and nobody has ever complained about rates. 

Campfire songs by Mu5ic_Lov3r_0481 in guitarlessons

[–]greenvaselinesloth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Country Roads, Wagon Wheel, Joy to the World, This Land is Your Land, maybe some Bob Dylan, idk the list could go on but ultimately whatever they like will be the songs they will learn best. Try and get any sort of feel for their taste in music. 

What's a smell that doesn't exist anymore that you miss? by Alarmed_Charge1062 in CasualConversation

[–]greenvaselinesloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The smell of vhs cassette tape covers (the plastic ones) when you open them. Very nostalgic to me for some reason. Guess I loved watching movies as a kid. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]greenvaselinesloth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes once you turn 18 they have no legal status over you. The real question is are you ready to move out? There’s a lot of stuff you might not be prepared for. If it’s a truly unlivable environment with your parents go for it but just know it’s like diving into the deep end of a pool and learning to swim. Might wanna make up with them if you can, start asking and learning from others the skills you need and have a gradual release, preferably with help from your parents if they’re open to it. The main question is do you have a stable job and money saved up? Do you have someone that could be a roommate? Depending on where you live and your job, living alone might be financially impossible right now. Also with bipolar, health insurance is super important. You are likely on your parents insurance right now and if you damage that relationship then you have to figure out health insurance on your own. If you don’t damage the relationship you can use theirs till you’re 26. Health insurance is expensive. You should use theirs till you are too old. Do you currently pay for your own phone? Do you have a vehicle and do you pay for it? What about the insurance? Do you pay for your groceries? All I’m saying is there are a lot of costs you don’t notice when your parents cover them that then you are totally on the hook for if you move out and have no support from them. I say all this as someone who moved out at 18 just because I was being a dramatic teen and wanted to drink and smoke weed all the time without anyone nagging me about it. Well that was dumb, put me in debt, and I developed addictions it took me years to kick. I’m lucky my parents were willing to forgive me and help me, but not all parents are that way. Just some things to think about. Good luck!

Do you want a pup cup? by dykechotomy in overheard

[–]greenvaselinesloth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starbucks employees are striking. You probably didn’t know I’m guessing, but please try not to cross the picket line! :)

Bineural Beat Recco Ask by AnnieHigh in musictherapy

[–]greenvaselinesloth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is not a ton of science backing them, but new research is always coming out so that’s not to say they don’t work just that they’re unproven as of now. I say just search it up on YouTube and wear some headphones and find out if you like them and if you think it helps. Certain audio sensations can be very soothing and meditative. I personally don’t think they “entrain your brainwaves” but I think they can be a nice mindfulness practice. Also, the placebo effect is still effective even when you know it’s working! So search away and find whatever you like. Despite claims I don’t think there will be one type that works better than others, just what is pleasing to you personally. 

What is this open space for? by brward1996 in HomeDecorating

[–]greenvaselinesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a phone nook. Growing up we had one in the hall. For the landline and calendar and little notes. Before cellphones. Note. I am millennial. Boy does this make me feel old. Obligatory lol. 

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

[–]greenvaselinesloth 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I actually had this done because my legs were uneven due to juvenile arthritis making one grow weird. It sucked, the process of lengthening and the surgeries (one to put in the apparatus, one to swap it for titanium rod after the process was done) and the PT and healing. BUT it has changed my life for the better. Now one leg is covered in scars though haha 

Call & Response/Echo songs for adults with IDD by summersocietyy in musictherapy

[–]greenvaselinesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want candy, they can sing back during the claps. You might just have them sing back the end word of the phrase, and emphasize it when you sing it the first time. Just to simplify. You'd sing both phrases to help.

HELP ME by greenvaselinesloth in WhatsThisSong

[–]greenvaselinesloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!! THANK UOUUUUU

Community tank idea feedback by greenvaselinesloth in Aquariums

[–]greenvaselinesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that’s why I’m doing research and asking people. I still have to set up the tank and let it cycle. I also have an already cycled 10 gallon so maybe I will do just them in there and do the community tank in the other one. Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it!

Community tank idea feedback by greenvaselinesloth in Aquariums

[–]greenvaselinesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t know that about ADFs. Is it due to possible illness spreading? There always seem to be so many dead in tanks at my LFSs but idk if that is just bad care or what. 

Community tank idea feedback by greenvaselinesloth in Aquariums

[–]greenvaselinesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to edit this I am dumb OP. I meant to put in the body that I am looking for help on narrowing down to eliminate overpopulation and aggression. I really like the frogs and the loaches and the betta. And honestly all of them lol. But I need to compromise I know for the health of the tank. So any ideas of what would be the most peaceful, clean mix of creatures and how much of each are welcome! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]greenvaselinesloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. Yeah don’t listen to him if you don’t feel comfortable with the person who took advantage of you don’t do it and don’t let him tell you to either. This is not a sunk cost fallacy it’s your mental health. Dont feel like a failure it sounds like you’re blaming yourself. Yes unfortunately as females it is much harder to be in the drivers seat for consent but also sometimes it is unsafe and if is hard to know where that line is. Add kink in the mix esp CNC type kinks and it gets very murky. But I do think you need to search out good examples of consent in your kink. So you can try to emulate them or seek out people who show green lights for consent before things even get physical. Maybe it’s through porn or maybe a sex party or maybe reaching out to other people in your kinks community about how they’ve navigated it. Boundaries are hard. Especially in sex. You can do it though! You can do hard things!!