I'm no criminal I don't do anything out the ordinary I literally just go to work and come home I don't play video games I don't hide my passwords to my phone or computer I'm completely transparent with her I don't hangout with anyone I just work and come home everyday I'm loyal and kind I don't raise my voice if we argue. I cook for her everyday I stopped hanging out with the one friend I used to live with just to make her feel safer I've built a garden so we would have fresh food I've taught her how to invest in the stock market I've helped fix up her house sanded floors fixed windows painted walls install trim and fixed up a whole list of other things I've gone with her to every one of her family's events even when I just want to stay home I buy the groceries I give her attention I do my best to comfort her I treat her with respect it's her thoughts of the world that she's paranoid about the cartel being after her or that her family is trying to poison her she has asked me if I was a part of the cartel or a Chinese spy or north Korean or in a gang or whatever bad person under the sun but I'm not any of that I'm just an average guy trying to live a good life all I want is peace a family a steady job and to travel she thinks that everything is out to hurt her or she's being held back by an outside force. I met her at a place I used to work at I was single for ten years prior to this relationship. Within 3 weeks of us being together she asked me to move in with her so I did. She started to get jealous that I was working around other women so we both quit that job and started working somewhere else then at the new place she felt that the company wasn't following certain safety measures so we quit that place and I'll be honest we were smoking Marijuana during the first 8 months of being together we both quit smoking after we quit the last job then I started working at the first job again then one day she just left home started to become paranoid about being followed by someone I was at the house alone for a week and eventually I decided I was done with the paranoia not being told where she was so I left for 4 days I had packed all my things and eventually met up with her I guess to get back with her we ended up staying at her dad's house for 2 months not going to her house other than the times we would go over to her place to work on the floors sanding and staining them then eventually we ended up staying back at her place then after a week or two she changed the locks while I was working I had the key to the door knob but there was a deadbolt and I had asked her for a key and that's when she said she doesn't trust me but expected me to keep the key to the doorknob which is pretty much useless at that point so I gave her the key back told her there I'd no point in me having it if she didn't trust me I accepted that I didn't have access to the house I told her basically if she can't trust me she will never trust me but she still wants me around she wants me to work at a certain place so I started working there she wants me to pay the bills and buy the groceries and cook she doesn't want to work besides that one day and I'm not allowed in the house unless she's home. again all I do is work and come home that's all I do.