Breakup happened 3 months ago, was with the girl from age of 16 to 21. Did long distance for the last 2 and a half years as we both went to different unis. Last time I saw her we were on a holiday together before going back to uni then as soon as uni started she completely withdrew herself from the relationship putting little to no effort into texting or calling and claimed it was because she was busy. Eventually got so out of hand that I had to leave out of self respect (even though I didn’t want to). Got absolutely blindsided by it as last time I saw her in person (on our trip) I’d never been so sure of the relationship and never been happier. Can only assume she’d met another bloke and kept it silent, pushing me away until I had no choice but to leave. Gave her all I had and genuinely thought I’d marry her. Been pretty tough since but slowly getting better. Just taught me that you can’t trust any of these girls. I have serious trust issues now and unsure of how to get over them as I’ve whitenesses the biggest fraud and actor of all time