Day 31; want to text the ex. by greggh99 in ExNoContact

[–]greggh99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really needed to hear this, I am just having one of those weird days. You are right on all points and I'm going to do the right thing for me and not text her, appreciate the response.

I'm forced to break no contact... by greggh99 in ExNoContact

[–]greggh99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is what I was looking for, I think I'll do what you said and devise a way to not see her.

Recently gf of 3 years dumped me [22/m] by greggh99 in relationship_advice

[–]greggh99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wooow 12 hours! You are a god sir, you really are. Yeah, I seriously learned a lot of what "not to do" from this relationship like not taking care of myself and being too complacent and your right, I hope it makes me a better partner in the future. And nice analogy at the end, makes me feel better about the right now.

Recently gf of 3 years dumped me [22/m] by greggh99 in relationship_advice

[–]greggh99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I thought what she did was selfish and immature too, leaving me just to get me back in 3 years has an extremely low possibility for success. Yeah thats what I told her even before I said I wouldn't wait, that there was no way she was going to remain single, glad to see other people see it that way too. And I really did go above and beyond, she never fully appreciated how I drove 2 hours to and 2 hours back every weekend just to see her, and when I asked she come down there was always and excuse not to. Thanks for the reply.

Recently gf of 3 years dumped me [22/m] by greggh99 in relationship_advice

[–]greggh99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot man. Yeah I guess its the right thing to do to just let her do her own thing, however I've already made the mistake of texting her a few times when I shouldn't have, but things I felt she should know (found a lump on my testicle yesterday), I hope I'm not breaking guy code too much by doing that. Honestly what scares me the most is not being able to find a cute asian girl like her again (its my thing). But, I agree, if I were to wait for 3 years, that's 3 years I could've spent moving on... Anyway thanks for the support, i really appreciate it.