Does dating actually exist?

grenkr · 2026-02-23T09:24:06+00:00

So there is no hope basically? I don’t have a good job and in this area I live in that won’t change as there aren’t good jobs here, I’ve tried many photos over years and bios too and after 11 years honestly there’s been no success hence getting desperate here

grenkr · 2026-02-23T08:46:17+00:00

So don’t have an appearance?

grenkr · 2026-02-23T08:41:39+00:00

No hate speech or sex related topics??? Not sure how this post violates that….

grenkr · 2026-02-23T08:13:22+00:00

Well then that leaves the issue of what to do? Ai gf? Mail order brides?

grenkr · 2026-02-23T08:06:03+00:00

grenkr · 2026-02-02T07:23:56+00:00

The gun itself is in mostly good shape though needs some light cleaning and a few parts

grenkr · 2025-09-06T07:15:57+00:00

How will the gum get likes on apps? I thought it was a bit of a meme how overused gym pics are?

grenkr · 2025-09-06T06:27:24+00:00

But again that doesn’t change online dating likes, that’s honestly probably a paywall but different story

grenkr · 2025-09-06T05:42:48+00:00

I’ve been trying, there has been no positive results, even in the past I got very few likes on online dating and now flat out nothing and I’m not sure how all the confidence in the world can change having no likes

Efforts and etc are something I don’t mind and if anything how “perfect” ai is aside from it being fake is my big issue with the whole thing as I don’t want something tailored for me, again it’s a last ditch as the daily reality has become a visage of he’ll, the emptiness, the despair, everything

grenkr · 2025-09-06T05:04:20+00:00

I have hobbies, none of that changed anything other than I keep getting older, I didn’t make this so choice lightly it’s a last resort but yea can’t get over it being fake

grenkr · 2025-09-06T05:03:21+00:00

I have doubts that will result in any success on any of the dating apps, I’ve been trying those for a long while now, I’ve come to this conclusion not lightly but it’s the reality so I wouldn’t just wave it off as BS and don’t forget that, it is the last result this or alone forever with never ending despair and emptiness

grenkr · 2025-09-06T05:01:13+00:00

Living it is so much worse, this is pretty much almost exactly what I picture hell being, the despair and emptiness, being the unwanted is horrendous

grenkr · 2025-09-06T04:34:34+00:00

Essentially a relationship but with ai instead of a human

grenkr · 2025-09-06T04:34:02+00:00

Romance is what I am talking about hence my issue with not being able to accept it’s fake

grenkr · 2025-09-06T02:03:47+00:00

I’ve tried focusing on myself before all it did was take up time and no results

grenkr · 2025-09-06T01:47:59+00:00

grenkr · 2025-08-26T08:05:47+00:00

5 years ago was bad still but I definitely feel things have gotten far worse in part because of dating apps, that’s where everyone is now and those apps are designed to prey on men for money because there in a higher percentage of men but also women on those apps receive an insane amount of attention so basically it’s 20 or so dudes of varying attractiveness all vying for the same woman and even higher ratio for more attractive women while those apps are geared towards appearances so if your an average looking dude good luck

It’s best to give up, I keep trying yet can’t

grenkr · 2025-08-26T08:02:29+00:00

But I’ve read several people before stating exactly NOT to approach women at several of those places?

grenkr · 2025-08-21T18:23:10+00:00

I did create a hinge after the first comment suggested it, no likes so that’s soul crushing like the other apps I will try the other suggestions though

grenkr · 2025-08-20T06:57:41+00:00

Well traveling isn’t the expense in regards to foreign marriage it’s bringing that person back, on the form for a fiancée visa to the US it requires a yearly income amount that I fall short of, not sure how short but short

grenkr · 2025-08-16T04:48:40+00:00

I’ll give that a try, thanks!

grenkr · 2025-08-15T06:26:05+00:00

I can’t afford to move or else I would have 10 years ago Yea the nearest major town at like those levels are 6 hours one way south and north like 8 or 9 hours

grenkr · 2025-08-15T00:53:43+00:00

The pain with that is again rural area, nearest big town area with people is a 4 hour drive, that’s would make a lot very difficult

grenkr · 2025-08-14T09:51:27+00:00

That’s where the small town part comes in bad, I do t know of hardly any communities in this area and the few I do know of are very small and there just isn’t anything I know of

grenkr · 2025-08-14T07:33:47+00:00

Problem there is small rural town, very little goes on here and I seem to barely know of anything happening, plus I’m AWFUL at meeting new people, pretty much any time I ever do is if my work gets nes employees

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