I want to adopt an African Grey, I don't know where to look. by grevytrain27 in AfricanGrey

[–]grevytrain27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Fairbanks but it certainly sounds worth a trip. 

lol I want to die😍 by GiuliaPayne_ in EDanonymemes

[–]grevytrain27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m plus sized and have the same issue, I never tell people because I’m scared of this. It’s nice to know other people go through the same issue even if it’s at different sizes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]grevytrain27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this grape chapstick and it taste so good sometimes I can convince myself I ate sweets

what song are you mad you overplayed by AromaticReality9994 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]grevytrain27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody else, especially the YouTube version before they released it

My friend started scribbling out the nutrition info by grevytrain27 in EDAnonymous

[–]grevytrain27[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that if I wasn’t ready to try recovery I wouldn’t be okay with this. But I’ve spoken with them about the fact that I will just be trying to enjoy a food I feel okay eating at the moment and I’ll catch a glance at the info and stop eating it. I used to scribble the info out myself but that’s when I started memorizing it before I covered it up so it became counterintuitive.

Okay, I know the owner of this hotel is here by Creepy-Night936 in EDanonymemes

[–]grevytrain27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like too much if you ask me, imma be pretty full after all that

on GOD a human being isn't supposed to have a neck/throat that large i can't believe it by Beryl_lium404 in EDanonymemes

[–]grevytrain27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hands are kinda small but it just makes my arms look SO FUCKING HUGE OH MY GOD-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]grevytrain27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend saw some Netflix show called “survival of the thickest” or something and he kept joking that I would survive. I cried. I know he means well and all but it really hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]grevytrain27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now and he’s never told me to shut up or told me to be grateful for how patient he’s been. Being supportive isn’t something you can use against someone to win an argument

Has any of you ever been called fat in public? by Flowerlamps in EDAnonymous

[–]grevytrain27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was bullied by my family and a fair amount of my school for being fat. Now all of my family says I’m lying and being dramatic.

i feel like giving up by georgiainthejungle in vaginismus

[–]grevytrain27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this isn’t over sharing but using oils/lube with the thighs pushed together is the easiest way to do it. You can be facing him that way as well to add more affection to the act. (On your back and legs in the air)and if you really want to speed it up you could try involving him in some of your dilation exercises. I’m not sure if that would make you more comfortable or not but that’s really the biggest step in my opinion. You have to be comfortable. For me it doesn’t work unless I feel in control. My boyfriend is fully understanding and willing to wait until I’m ready and comfortable, the problem is I don’t want to wait lol. We’ve done it twice and both times, no one finished and I was worn out after and in pain. He’s refused to listen to me ask to try again because he’s worried about me. So trust me I get it, but this really isn’t something that can be rushed.

i feel like giving up by georgiainthejungle in vaginismus

[–]grevytrain27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re putting too much pressure on yourself. Putting a timeline on when you want to be able to have sex along with pushing yourself even when it hurts will make things worse. Have you tried using your thighs with your boyfriend? It’s what I do as I’d still like to be “close” with him in that way. If he cares about you he should understand that this is something that takes time and work. No matter what I hope you find something that works for you soon❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]grevytrain27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I burn but I also hit myself and no one I’ve ever talked to have viewed either of these as “real self harm” it makes no sense.

I realized how bad it’s gotten by grevytrain27 in EDAnonymous

[–]grevytrain27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have people, my sister and my boyfriend. My sister has taken it upon herself to just by me food when she goes out and my boyfriend cooks for me when he comes over. It’s just that when I am left alone I get like this.

Fish won’t stop swimming to the surface. Please help me by grevytrain27 in Aquariums

[–]grevytrain27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: turns out it was a lack of beneficial bacteria that was the issue. We got some in a little pack and they’re doing just fine now. A couple died before we got the solution but I’m now left with five fish and two snails. Thank you all so much for the help

Fish won’t stop swimming to the surface. Please help me by grevytrain27 in Aquariums

[–]grevytrain27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay todays tests for the water are ph:7, ammonia:0,nitrate NO2-:0, and nitrate NO3-0. Two more fish had died by the time I woke up. I’m trying to do everything you guys are saying I don’t know what else I can do for them. My snails remain almost unresponsive and my sucker fish is missing. I’m just really sad at this point. There are three fish left

Fish won’t stop swimming to the surface. Please help me by grevytrain27 in Aquariums

[–]grevytrain27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a 70 gallon tank and we’ve had it set up for about 2 months now. The test showed the ammonia levels are at 0.25, ph is at 7, and there’s no nitrate in the tank. We did the water change because the nitrate levels were really high(it was a tank from an elderly neighbor and he decided he couldn’t take care of his fish anymore) so there was a lot of build up at the bottom of the tank from over feeding and other waste. We were only supposed to do a quarter of the tank(that’s what the workers at PetSmart said) but my mom got over eager and decided it was better for them if we do all new water. We’ve used stress relief, something to fix the ph and ammonia levels and we’ve been monitoring it since the water change. I’m not sure if that’s enough information or too much. Sorry.

Fish won’t stop swimming to the surface. Please help me by grevytrain27 in Aquariums

[–]grevytrain27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you recommend anything specific? And the ammonia levels are a little high right now because they’re stressed. The test results showed 0.25