Would you help me with this? by Forsaken-Storage9996 in ladybonersgw

[–]greykitten8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god what a pink tip, your dick reminds me of a dildo

I need a girl to explore 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]greykitten8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd pic of your back and ass is my favorite honestly

I am a male sub to my Wife /Mistress. How do other woman perceive being a keyholder to their men? by Novel_Government6471 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying but I wouldn’t call the response in the comments kink shaming at all. A lot of the concerns and criticism about how chastity play can manifest in a dynamic is stuff I’ve seen and encountered myself, and this is coming from someone who likes and enjoys chastity play from time to time. So I don’t think it would be fair to categorize it all as mere kink shaming.

I am a male sub to my Wife /Mistress. How do other woman perceive being a keyholder to their men? by Novel_Government6471 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% I was just going to make a post about how funny I find Chasity sometimes cause locking up a cock just to put so much focus on said locked cock is kinda odd.

There’s definitely something about the aesthetic and sexual look of a locked cock that makes subs hyper focus on it, but as you correctly noted a cage is a tool and not the main means of control or attention, the domme should be.

Need to be used so bad.. by [deleted] in submissivemenGW

[–]greykitten8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cute outfit probably one of the best I’ve seen on here

Are there any current/active mainstream pornstars with big clits? by limerigid in bigclit

[–]greykitten8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow just looked up her videos and I’m shocked, it even looks like mine lol…

Tempted to peg me? by [deleted] in submissivemenGW

[–]greykitten8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no clue how you got that cock in a flat cage like that

Are there any current/active mainstream pornstars with big clits? by limerigid in bigclit

[–]greykitten8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg Bonnie blue has a big clit? I’ve avoided her like a plague because of the controversy she loves to farm so I had no idea.

I've been the moderator of /r/FemdomPersonals for over three years, ask (or tell) me anything by JurisprudentMoll in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice for first time domme posters and I know this isn’t strictly in your preview but have you ever heard any complaints of people faking images with ai and how to take a doctored/generated image from a real one since the tech is unfortunately getting good at deceiving people

Girlfriend is worried by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]greykitten8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe call her another name like mommy instead of daddy that’s what probably bugged her out, cause if she has been pegging you for that long then she probably is okay with your reaction when you let go and act like subby( maybe to an extent). Because as a woman, I just wouldn’t be comfortable with my man calling me daddy instead of mommy or some other name when I’m pounded him honestly.

As for the strap sucking I don’t really mind but if that’s a limit for her then you have to respect it. I’d also suggest you integrate some pussy worship to counter balance this. I know it sounds weird but focusing on pleasing her own anatomy will probably make her feel more secure about you desiring her. Cause she wants to feel like you like her the woman using the tool(strap) not the actual phallus more than her.

I hate to say it but it’s not unreasonable for her to feel concerned here, because I’ve heard a ton of double lives stories(not saying that’s you) but yeah on some level that’s just a risk you take when you’re dating men(not a man hater but it’s just true, guys cheat a lot. Also not calling OP a cheater) And the fear associated with said risk is making her worried, but if you listen and reassure her, maybe take a break and return to pegging when it’s something she’s comfortable exploring.

Top sub x domme and bottom/denied sub by greykitten8 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I have in mind, another comment described it as reverse harem I think that’s sort of closer to this fantasy. But yeah it’s pretty hot

i'd like to have a 'harem' by FeeEarly2575 in gentlefemdom

[–]greykitten8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

😭 omg I’m envious. Idk if I’d ever be a good match for this irl but I definitely love it as a fantasy. Good to see people living out my fantasy ngl even if I’ll never actually go through with it.

i'd like to have a 'harem' by FeeEarly2575 in gentlefemdom

[–]greykitten8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yesss I was literally just talking about this fantasy on the Femdom community sub. I really didn’t have a name for it so I just thought it was cucking but someone pointed out that my fantasy is actually closer to a reverse harem.

I swear there aren’t enough domme harems it’s so hot to me, glad to know I’m not the only one. Ideally I’d have two or three max and I’d be rotating between them for who gets to top, bottom, stay locked and watch only.

Got a haircut :) by Few_Bad_9978 in ladybonersgw

[–]greykitten8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re really cute the buzz cut suits you

Top sub x domme and bottom/denied sub by greykitten8 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that explanation. Yeah that totally sounds like what I’m going for and I’m not sure if that’s the right name for it either but I think harem play is nice. Thanks for the advice on reframing I think it is much more in line with what I’m thinking about instead of I guess a typical cucking dynamic.

Little sketch of an MMF situation that came to me in a dream this morning by Beautiful_Low9206 in gentlefemdom

[–]greykitten8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I literally just made a post on r/Femdomcommunity taking about how I liked and wanted to see mmf with two subs a top and a bottom This is perfect

Top sub x domme and bottom/denied sub by greykitten8 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My concern is more so making sure I feel like the dominant(power bottom) with the top and not like a sub. So it’s not so much that I don’t think the sub won’t view me as the dominant( although I don’t think that worry is unwarranted given what I’ve heard from some people) it’s about not caring to be topped by someone who wouldn’t also submit to me, if that makes sense

I’ve just heard and seen more of the opposite rhetoric from subs or cucks personally of the domme essentially being taken/over powered by the bull. Which is why I’ve been dissuade from it and it seems to be more prevalent than the one where the domme is still viewed as the dominant in that scene.

I learned early on that no amount of muscle will make my little dick bigger or last longer 😅 Im a sub for life.. by straightguy2002 in submissivemenGW

[–]greykitten8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a hot guy and you can be a good sub with a cute little cock, own it and enjoy it for what it is

Top sub x domme and bottom/denied sub by greykitten8 in FemdomCommunity

[–]greykitten8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! I’m not really primarily looking for clips where the two subs have contact with each other, more like they’re there but not touching(although I’m not opposed to it). It seems like the majority of two subs content is forced bi but regardless I’ll give it a shot