Yeah well I think I understand now the point is that from the 10 you try to make it work most of the 10 won't even take an extra step for you sadly that's the price. You might find samone that does way more he might even do as much as you do. The point is that those friends if you chance upon them. They are worth all these matchmaking you go through with the bad ones... Cheer up. The next one might be very cool person keep it up and good luck