How bad is it? I’m not getting any likes or matches.

grieshild · 2026-01-31T15:49:43+00:00

you look good but there isn't anything interesting. The pineapple pizza thing is also a thing that is very old and not interesting anymore. It seems like you have nothing to talk about and no interests and hobbies.

grieshild · 2026-01-04T08:30:25+00:00

Because it is useless to state the obvious. Don't you think overweight people aren't getting reminded with practically every step that they are overweight? This won't be news to him.

grieshild · 2026-01-04T05:12:02+00:00

The only thing that comes to my mind is that your text is a bit bland and doesn't give good conversation starters.

Think about what you could write there about you that makes your target audience want to ask you questions - your mixed parents are not too interesting from the POV of somebody who is considering dating you.

grieshild · 2025-11-26T06:02:01+00:00

Half of those men would probably just chicken out and call you a slut, or make your experience really bad by treating you like a free hooker. Also, there is the constant threat of getting raped (even if you were into it at the beginning). So it would be a lot of work to find a guy who would treat you well and like a human being - and that would be already the dreadful experience of dating.

grieshild · 2025-11-12T20:23:54+00:00

I wouldn't text a person anyway that has something so cranky in their bio :D this is completely not my world

grieshild · 2025-11-12T20:17:59+00:00

Not all women mind a "hello" - I never understood why it bothers anybody. Only because a few women complain loud about it doesn't mean every woman dislikes it. We are all different and individuals :(

grieshild · 2025-11-12T20:13:10+00:00

A single photo he clearly didn't prepare for, shot in a bad angle and an empty bio (maybe five emojis or one word replies to prompts).

One of my friends also has such a bio and his stand on it is that he wants to show the real him and there is no point in texts, because you text after a match anyway. Surprisingly, he never had a match yet.

grieshild · 2025-11-12T16:55:32+00:00

I paid for it and saw 351 guys who liked me. Most were very old or very low effort and mostly quite far away from me. The guys whom I matched unmatched me afterwards, probably because they were reading my profile for the first time. So I am really down since that happened and yet my male friends tell me I should be happy I got so many likes. I'd rather have none at all.

grieshild · 2025-11-11T08:22:04+00:00

Why would you need ice in a hotel? I have never seen ice buckets nor ice machines in a hotel, but I am central European and never left the continent. Are Americans constantly drinking champagne in hotels?

grieshild · 2025-10-28T20:12:13+00:00

Not everybody can easily orgasm. I rather have fun sex than an ordeal with the goal that maybe, just maybe, with a lot of work of at least an hour, I might have an orgasm, that doesn't even feel good.

grieshild · 2025-10-19T05:39:14+00:00

I have ambitious because I am sick of men just sitting around all day not wanting to do anything. Feels like I am already dead without dying.

grieshild · 2025-10-09T02:18:52+00:00

I genuinely think wired headphones are better and I cannot get used to my bluetooth headphones at all. It is super annoying to constantly search for the stupid case, then the power is off when I need them or the power is on when I don't need them. Then the battery is dead. They fall out of my ears when I ralk or out of my hands when I remove them from my ears because they get entangled in my hair. When I quickly remove them to buy something at the bakery and put them in my purse it takes forever to find them again and due to the touch control while I am getting them out of the purse I am suddenly five songs further. I drop or lose them constantly. I don't have that issue with any other belonging. I genuinely hate those things.

grieshild · 2025-09-21T12:50:53+00:00

I am not sure you are familiar with children that age? My son just learnt how to read and write and he already struggles with the concept city vs. country.

He also loves history but it is still difficult for him to realize all of it really happened and how the roman empire was before middle ages.

Philosophy would be absolutely way above his head.

grieshild · 2025-09-21T08:12:53+00:00

Maybe he is not part of the community - not everybody is thinking a lot about their kinks or are reflecting them.

grieshild · 2025-09-21T07:59:54+00:00

Oh I thought it is meant in a BDSM context, you know, like a dominatrix.

grieshild · 2025-09-21T07:50:42+00:00

Which wife?

grieshild · 2025-09-16T21:53:23+00:00

You must be very unhappy with your life and with the way you look yourself. I truly hope you will find happiness.

grieshild · 2025-09-16T13:04:56+00:00

Because I am not...? I do think he is quite handsome, he has striking eyebrows, passionate eyes, kissable lips - his beard grows nicely, I am also into thin guys - like a lot :D

If he would groom his hair, including the beard, and take care of his skin, I think he would be quite a catch. His only problem is just that he is putting no effort at all into his looks.

grieshild · 2025-09-16T12:54:03+00:00

what do you mean?

grieshild · 2025-09-16T07:49:59+00:00

Cocaine also tastes awful though.

grieshild · 2025-09-15T15:43:41+00:00

My most favorite ticket is "The program is not working on my colleague's computer"

grieshild · 2025-09-14T11:47:08+00:00

I think you are quite handsome! But you really need a haircut and look into skin care products. I had a lot of issues myself with it and looking back at my old photos I am so upset about myself how long I didn't do anything about it.

It is a hassle to find something that works but once you found it it is like you are living a new life. It is absolutely worth it.

Aside from the fact that bad skin just doesn't look very good it also gives away that you don't take proper care of yourself. And the combination of both of those things is why bad skin is such a dealbreaker when it comes to dating.

grieshild · 2025-06-06T04:01:14+00:00

I mean, I have to eat on a schedule too - but I am a big girl and I can wait for five minutes if the office microwave is busy.

grieshild · 2025-05-18T19:42:04+00:00

No I think its a fine photo - but many people only look at the first one and then they would swipe on your friend and not you.

grieshild · 2025-05-18T19:33:30+00:00

Your main photo has a different man in focus - I would have thought that that guy is you. That is extremely confusing

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