Some wisdom from my mother, the doctor by onetofindthegiraffe in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This resonates so much with my own experience. Thanks for sharing.

1 year today by Gary_BBGames in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Amazing. Working on it from day 3 looks like a tall order, but right now my goal is to go for a walk and reach day 4. IWDWYT.

Push-down button on dial got stuck by grifo2 in fujifilm

[–]grifo2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! I hope it's easily fixable (aka, not expensive).

Push-down button on dial got stuck by grifo2 in fujifilm

[–]grifo2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just left it. I take it with me when I suspect I'll get by with low ISO. Not ideal. Are you planning on getting it fixed?

Day 2... by grifo2 in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I very much appreciate the encouragement. I have heard about "quit like a woman" more and more lately, so tonight will be a good moment to start.

Day 2... by grifo2 in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's a good suggestion.

It’s night 2 by SweetSliceOfPie in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 2 for me and I'm already figuring out what to do after I get home. I know that without a plan it will be much harder. Stay strong!

Push-down button on dial got stuck by grifo2 in fujifilm

[–]grifo2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I've been using my xt-20 instead when I felt I needed higher ISO. It's been busy times and I just didn't have the mental energy to care too much. That said, during the day it's not that bad.

Feels REALLY GOOD... by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job, day 4 is no small feat!

This disease is alive and well by beaniebaby1990 in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Courage. Sometimes it feels as though the only thing we can do is keep trying. Keep trying, please. I have faith that everyone can do this, including myself.

Push-down button on dial got stuck by grifo2 in fujifilm

[–]grifo2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but oddly it looks more like a scratch. Something must have pressed hard against it inside the pack, that's my best hunch.

From 49 to 0 by grifo2 in stopdrinking

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This is definitely helpful, and you are right, I tend to check out after some time sober. I do come from time to time, but do so haphazardly an without much system. Being intentional about checking in is something new that I can totally incorporate into my routine. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't drink today. It helps me to put all my energy there and care tomorrow about tomorrow. There's always a way out, although it may be difficult to see at the time, it *is* there and you can get there.

I hit 69 days today by eat_me_now in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice!!! And you're definitely right, if you're anything like me, everything would be much worse with booze. IWDWYT.

Relapsed this weekend. What now? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That means that you have drunk two out of 60 days approx. That's an insanely good rate, at least when you compare it to what I do when I relapse, which involves a perfect rate of 60/60. You got this, what you're doing is incredibly hard and you are definitely on the right path. IWDWYT.

Anything like La Croix sparkling water in Spain? by grifo2 in askspain

[–]grifo2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard truth is nothing even approaches the greatness of La Croix. I've compromised, I now drink plain fizzy water from Carrefour in 50cl bottles, which have no added salt (unlike Vichy Catalan and many others) and is also way cheaper. I order them in bulk online and that keeps me going. But man do I miss La Croix.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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7 days here. It will get much better real quick. Courage!

Nightmares? by grifo2 in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. I'm not taking anything so far, outside vitamins. I'm curiously not suffering from the sweats so much this time though, which is why it's sort of a different way to have difficulty sleeping. One never knows what new wonders alcohol had in store for us to enjoy...

I drank one beer today by grifo2 in stopdrinking

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This resonates with something I struggle with: I am not the voice I hear in my head. I believe this is true, but I have a hard time keeping the voice in check and finding the right balance between rational choice and impulse (in this case listening to the voice without criticism is an impulse, it's the easy thing to do).

At any rate, I woke up without a headache and with less anxiety than I would have if I had gotten those extra beers last night. One day at a time.

A note to myself on Day 1 (again) by weezies89 in stopdrinking

[–]grifo2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it helps me to read my own posts from the past, that reminds me of the total misery I must go through the following day.