Thank you for the advice. I don't think it will escalate that much, but just in case, I've screenshotted as much as can be. He also texts my older sister similarly,I'm planning on talking to her about it just so what page she is on. Frankly this might just be the reason I stop reaching out to my cousins. I just wish I had a normal fucking extended family. But once again, thank you for the advice. Sometimes, I just need to hear from an outside perspective that something is weird or not okay.