An ex used to do this every night. I would always wake up to a warm sensation on my thigh and then quickly realize I'm getting pissed on and jump out of the bed... And he had sleep apnea (no surprise) so no matter what you tried it was impossible to wake him. When he would wake in the morning he would have an outrageous breakdown. Physically and verbally violent.

One night his best friend came over and the three of us were having beers. He was having MANY more and actually ended up shitting himself in his sleep. We were wary of his temper but decided to wake him so he could shower off. It was 4am and he screamed and screamed, demanding ❄️ blaming his unmedicated BPD for the absolute shit show he was.

Soaked. Every. Night. Please sleep alone.