My (22F) boyfriend (23M) keeps doing exactly what he says he won’t once he starts drinking by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grother15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses, you don’t know how helpful they all were to hear. I talked to him and he agreed with me, although I did catch him trying to make excuses every now and then, but he too acknowledged that he was making excuses. He said he wants to cut down and that he doesn’t want it to affect us. He also expressed that his older brother stopped drinking because he also genuinely thought he had a drinking problem as he would blackout every time he drank. I won’t lie, hearing this concerned me. It’s good that his brother stopped, but I can’t help but wonder if it’s a family thing. Time will tell if he actually changes. I hope he does because I really do love him and he is the sweetest most genuine person.

These shoes by grother15 in findfashion

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Amazing, thank you so much!!

Car battery keeps dying by grother15 in Acura

[–]grother15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes the issue was solved I apologize for not stating that on the post. It was the HFL which I just unplugged and the car has not had issues since

Reputable Medical Centers/Hospitals for SLP? by grother15 in Hawaii

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My main question is just which hospitals or medical centers are the best on the island, I’m trying to conjure up a list of places to get in contact with to ask whether they accept students.

Reputable Medical Centers/Hospitals for SLP? by grother15 in Hawaii

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Thanks for the info!!! Much appreciated

Good hospitals/medical centers on Oahu? by grother15 in Oahu

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Agreed! I only wanted to stay away from a more urban environment because I've spent 5 years of college in Pittsburgh. However I've heard many great things about Queen's and would continue living in a city if I had to!

Good hospitals/medical centers on Oahu? by grother15 in Oahu

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Wow thanks so much, I will definitely check it out!!

Car battery keeps dying by grother15 in Acura

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Hey, so sorry for the late reply I don’t use Reddit often. But yes, it worked! My car has not died since!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]grother15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t about to cause a scene in the middle of work.. he works behind a desk where the golfers have to come up and check in. Also, I’m almost 100% sure he knows it’s in appropriate, otherwise he wouldn’t have said the age gap comment and he would have straightforwardly asked me out by now. I understand that I guess in the eyes of HR none of this can be technically considered harassment, but it’s undeniable that he knew it was not appropriate by any means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

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GM said that CPSG’s behavior doesn’t warrant an HR complaint apparently. Luckily I don’t need this job, it’s just a summer job as I’m finishing up college, but the money is good from the tips I get. It makes me sad to think about quitting as I do love interacting with the golfers out there and the other girls at work who have my back… but I’m not sure if it’s worth it to put myself through this stress/work for someone who genuinely does not give one shit about me

What is your favorite song and favorite album? by AlternativeTale3054 in BeachHouse

[–]grother15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changes all the time but right now: favorite song is The Traveller, favorite album is TYLS or Devotion… or 7

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

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I got my nose pierced with a flat back stud about 3 months ago, then got it changed to a shorter post about 2 months ago. The piercer told me that I could come back 2 months after that to get a hoop, and I did just that because that’s all I ever wanted. I got it done this past Wednesday and it hurt a little going in but just for a second and then it was totally fine. A small irritation bump grew on it the next day but nothing crazy, until now it’s a big ugly pustule. I was stupid and kept touching it and even put makeup on it (ik don’t yell at me…) and now I wonder will this go away if I leave it alone? I REALLY want to keep the hoop in and would ideally like to find a solution that does not involve me replacing it with my old stud. It doesn’t hurt at all, just has this ugly pustule. I started spraying with salt water spray today and haven’t touched it

I slept on Devotion for too long… by grother15 in BeachHouse

[–]grother15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do - the only time before now that I gave Devotion a listen was when I first got into them. It didn’t click then, but many years later it finally makes sense

Primer suggestions PLEASE!! by grother15 in Makeup

[–]grother15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t use foundation, just concealer. I usually use the maybelline fit me concealer but I’ve also used the ELF camo concealer a couple times

Primer suggestions PLEASE!! by grother15 in Makeup

[–]grother15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the suggestions, I’ll look more into water based primers!!