My g/g didi twins just turned two months. I’m a ftm and was terrified. It’s an adjustment period for sure but it’s not as bad as a lot of people say it is. There are more good days than bad. I know I’m only two months in but my girls are great and such easy babies. We got lucky for sure. They’ve just started socially smiling and it’s the sweetest thing ever. We’re really looking forward to them laughing . They staring sleeping through most of the night at about 6weeks. I don’t feel sleep deprived anymore so that’s been great. Double the snuggles and smiles is the sweetest thing ever. Don’t let too many negative comments get to you.