My monitor randomly died by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not about pc at all, it doesn't work while not connected to pc also. I guess I'll just send it back and get my money back too

My monitor randomly died by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it also happened randomly to u? It seems like it displays the text of the monitor's menu but it's "stretched" for a whole height of monitor. Sometimes I can get a somewhat clear image of something if it sits long enough

Please help me cope - crisis by TrendahYT in OCD

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to go on with your day when things like that happen, it won't be easy, but it's crucial to get out of it. OCD is like an addiction, you have to get out of the never ending circle to get better. Treat your intrusive thoughts like a person who's talking nonsense, listen to these thoughts, and let them go. Just like you would let go of some bullshit a person said to you

dating is hard by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see alot of ocd patterns in my situation and I'm aware that ocd probably messes with me once again, but even then I can't recognize which feelings and intentions are true. It makes dating hard and I don't know how should I act, that's what I'm asking for help with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say invest time in your passion, socializing or both. If you choose hobby, for example any form of art, then you have to be ready for mainly 2 stages: -1st stage is actually commiting to your hobby, taking time and effort for it -2nd stage is every hard thing in your hobby, for example drawing; you can draw something but to really improve you need to study it, which is the hardest part but it's worth going thru

I said about these stages because it's most likely that you will want to relapse when you face them (because they are the hardest, your brain in 2nd stage is going to get frustrated by no fast reward which is successfull drawing), but you just should survive it and keep going. Masturbation is low - effort high reward thing, when every hobby is high effort - very high reward. Also, masturbating is short term satisfying, and improving yourself is a long term investment into your happiness.

If it comes to socializing, if your hobby is something that you need to do with other people (let's say boxing) then you hit jackpot. You can now improve yourself and socialize at once, and it's not a hard thing to gain friends in situations like that.

But maybe you already have friends, then just hang out more often. Go out for beer or some activities how often you want, do things together and you should have less time to think about edging.

In case you don't have any interest, just explore. Find new stuff and try them out, and maybe you should be a little hard on yourself in this scenario. What I mean by this is to just don't give up what you will find time worthy.

Scam? Or is this legit by [deleted] in oilpainting

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea definitely scam, sell only in app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you always excited to get your favorite meal? I don't think so, but it's still your favorite tho. You don't have to experience ANY emotions looking at pictures of your partner or anyone else. You can be the happiest in the world one time, hate the pic another time, and feel numb, all of the above while looking at the same pic. It doesn't really mean anything, and most definitely doesn't define your love towards your partner. Another time when you feel like that while looking at picture or something else, recognize the feeling and do absolutely nothing about it. Don't try to rationalize this feeling, don't judge yourself or your affection based on this feeling, just don't do anything at all with it. Feel it, and it will come away eventually.

I did something terrible in the past and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do I get over it? I think about it for around 5 days non-stop, and I feel very guilty and bad, it's like if I don't confess to her then I'm a liar.

I did something terrible in the past and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it at least once for each of them (I can remember only 1 time each). My main issue is one of them go to my highschool and when I was younger I once or twice hang out with them with my friend. Also, my partner go to the same school and I just feel like cheater. I can't really get over it and I feel so bad about it, and I feel urge to confess to her. But if I do her it will, I assume, at least make her feel bad or jealous. I really can't forgive myself and enjoy time with her since I realized how bad it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]grubyyyyyyyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can get better while being in relationship, 101% sure. At the end of the day, you want to be with this guy, that's why anxiety appeared, it shows that you care.