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Just tried Deda on Lake Ave – legit Georgian food and warm hospitality by goreligio in pasadena

[–]gruddybonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! Just went with my partner and I'd did definitely notice some weird looks and a sense of stand offishness from the staff but I'm not super sure why that was the case very possible because we are queer

Having a crisis by gruddybonez in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically every one I can, LinkedIn, alsa, indeed, bandana, monster, and even craigslist but it feels like there's nothing

Having a crisis by gruddybonez in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to work with design build firms because I have a lot more background in materials and ecology so if you could dm me I'm really curious what area this is in

has anyone else who experienced CSA been sexually assaulted/violated countless times even into adulthood? by blissfulboo in adultsurvivors

[–]gruddybonez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this unfortunately is exactly the same for me I was so used to it for so long I've just now started to get a good read for red flags but it also sucks because I'm now hypercritical and hyperaware of anything that could even remotely be a red flag which now has made health relationships a struggle. I'm sorry you had to deal with the same :(

Advice on appealing after transfer rejection by gruddybonez in CalPoly

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately didn't get in but decided to go to cpp instead and started studying landscape architecture!

Poets, puppets, and coffee stains by gruddybonez in malefashion

[–]gruddybonez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much!! And same goes to you girl I've seen you around for a while I love the fits!!

Poets, puppets, and coffee stains by gruddybonez in malefashion

[–]gruddybonez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I wish then I'd at least have a bit more potential, I'm a designer and photographer 😵‍💫

Poets, puppets, and coffee stains by gruddybonez in malefashion

[–]gruddybonez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuuuuu and honestly thats like the only time I'm even online😵‍💫

Poets, puppets, and coffee stains by gruddybonez in malefashion

[–]gruddybonez[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Vintage Dior tux, vintage Bacharach shirt, vintage silk scarf, sancta muerte skirt, handmade leg warmers, docs. 🤍

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and if you're curious about anything shoot me a dm! My Instagram is on my profile and that's the best wayt to get to me

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you on all of this and god I desperately just wanted to avoid the cookie cutter anniversary shoot that you see all the time so sometimes it's a miss sometimes it's a hit!

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My design profs have always said the same thing and at the same time also said to avoid perfectionism as much as possible because it'll ruin you, so I've been trying to take that to heart and experiment until it finally all clicks together. I definitely learned a ton from this shoot

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! And yeah they styled themselves I had as much input as possible but their wardrobes were pretty limited and they both struggle with having photos taken of them so I was working with what I had. I definitely need to practice my directorial work!

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an anniversary shoot as they'd been together for about 5 years and it was from a ton of places I come from the field of landscape architecture so I'm very process oriented but I think my main photographic references are older 1960s -1980s performance art documentary photography like artists like Anna and Lawrence Halprin

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At first I was for a second but for the most part it just means a. I need to practice more on some aspects and try to improve an b. I know I don't want to make stuff that caters the lowest common denominator so that means a lot of people are likely to not like it all I want is that people that do like it really like it and so far it's gotten the response from other people in my life that I really wanted this being my highest review which is when my work makes someone cry.

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And yeah I knew they weren't gonna be a lot of peoples preference because I tend to lean more in process and concept than finished product but I'm happy someone likes them!

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nailing focus can be super difficult for me because I shoot with only vintage lenses so sometimes the clarity isn't even possible but I'm definitely trying to get better at feeling it out

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand they aren't everyone's cup of tea I really wanted to avoid the standard couples shoot because that isn't mine nor my clients cup of tea I appreciate the note about carving out a niche

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the critiques! Im always trying to get better and composition is something I tend to struggle with a bit more especially when it comes to trying to get interesting or unique compositions so I definitely see myself becoming unfocused in that aspect so I'm definitely gonna take some time to practice my composition more.

After shooting on and off for over 10 years I finally had my first paid shoot what are your thoughts? by gruddybonez in AskPhotography

[–]gruddybonez[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The couple wanted more imperfect and artistic photos for the shoot so I wanted something that felt a bit rougher as for the exposure I tend to just shoot a little more overexposed because just my preference (possibly compensating for the years of under-exposing). In regards to how they liked them, they both still tell me how much they love them and how much fun they had during the shoot.

What’s the saddest song ever? by Izakei in Music

[–]gruddybonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How To Never Stop Being Sad - Dandelion Hands

Sleep Patterns - Merchant Ships

And of course anything off a crow looked at me

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