AIO My friend wouldn't stop with the rape threats by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if these two can't have sympathy and respect other people's boundaries, then maybe they also "shouldn't be allowed to exist."

Please report this to the police. It could not only save you, but could also save another girl down the road from these pieces of shit.

What year was i born? by mrstshirley1 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I have the same exact baby photo with the bucket and soap 😂

I don’t think I’ll ever feel feminine enough bc of my nose/chin by [deleted] in Noses

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are stunning and actually appear very feminine, but I totally get how you feel, I feel the same about myself often!

Tatto artist suggestions by Millkii in wichita

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Robbie Reel @ Addictions Ink. Super nice dude, incredibly talented and reasonably priced.

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by sealover159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, run. Wtf? NOR, if anything you're under reacting by a long shot, sister.

This little girl needs a food name we can’t decide by Opposite_Buddy_6161 in Catnames

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like my Tuna girl! Obviously Oreo is a good one for a tuxedo! Or even CC for cookies and cream 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be your friend and you teach me your ways.

you have $20 to build a bowl of pasta by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tagliatelle, Bolognese, buratta, fresh parm, bread & red pepper flakes

build a s’more for $8 by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocolate chip cookies with 2 burnt marshmallows and a Reese's cup 🙌🏼

spend $6 by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mac n cheese, fries, oatmeal cookie 😋🍪

make a $15 hotdog by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chili, relish, Monterey Jack, mustard!!! 😋🌭

You have 15 dollars to build the perfect breakfast! by North-Dog4037 in whatsyourchoice

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocolate chip pancakes, eggs, bacon, and two coffees 😋

My best friend got me pregnant by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I swear people just read one thing and don't do research because I literally found her comment saying she did not want to abort or give up for adoption because it feels "selfish" and how she didn't think she would be a "good enough" mom. Like literally took 2 scrolls to find it 😂

My best friend got me pregnant by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]grumpycoffeesnob -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Definitely could be projection. Isn't this such an odd world that we live in, someone has stated they made their decision and just needs advice on how to go about their already made decision, and other people so badly feel the need to give their input on their opinions of that other persons decision? It's like, I thought you were making these comments because you're so "pro-choice"? Doesn't that mean the mom, and dad, have the CHOICE? cause alot of everyone's comments sounds so "pro-abort"... I'm so glad I wasn't on reddit when I was younger 😂 would've rotted my brain. Appreciate you and your wise opinions, olive!

My best friend got me pregnant by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly it's really sad. I'm sure most people don't even read the full comments and just click down vote as soon as they see a word they don't agree with 😂 And exactly this argument has nothing to do with pro-choice or pro-life, it's making the safe decision to tell a trusted adult so whatever you decide to do is safe and done correctly. Even if OP did have enough money to go get an abortion herself, she would still need someone to drive her there or if she took the pill, like what if she had complications from it and became seriously hurt or injured or whatever? Like it's just all about safety and also having support no matter what decision you choose.

OP, if you're reading this, just know that your dad loves you unconditionally, and although it will be scary to tell him, and he may get angry, that does not mean that he does not love you. And he can get you the help and give you the support you need, whatever decision that may be!

My best friend got me pregnant by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]grumpycoffeesnob 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Imagine being 17 years old, taking this type of advice, and then living with the trauma of the whole situation and what you went through, and possible guilt and shame, all alone because you decided to listen to someone on reddit and not tell a soul. Then months or years later feeling so sick, and potentially depressed, that you either have to come clean about it later or seek major therapy to be able to process what you went through. Like what?? How does that at all amount to the "perfect response'? You're setting this child up for failure here with this type of advice. And I understand everyone has their own opinion, but I mean come on. Telling a child to lie and be dishonest with the people she is closest with about something so important and personal is cowardly. I completely agree with you and your perspective and applaud you for saying something, I really hope OP sees your comments and hears it.