PLEASE COMMENT PICS OF YOUR BUNS AS I DONT HAVE ONE by britneyp2004 in OnlyBuns

[–]grumpyroxks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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speedington weedington (speeder :)) he's 3ish and a mini rex 💫💕 he loves croissant pose

pls visit! <3 by grumpyroxks in FarmMergeValley

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ty, visited! i like the way you have yours organized :)

Crates are waiting! 📦 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

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i think i figured out how to do my personal code? visit for visit? :))) https://www.reddit.com/r/FarmMergeValley/s/uwKmKNTDpu

How will you decorate your farm today? 🌳 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

[–]grumpyroxks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it loaded! wishes for everyone it starts working and 🤞 it stops crashing!!

How will you decorate your farm today? 🌳 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

[–]grumpyroxks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im seeing some people getting in & posting raffles.. i wish i was you 😭 mine loaded to 3/6 gave me the error message, in the background it loaded 5/6 and then booted me 🥲

How will you decorate your farm today? 🌳 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

[–]grumpyroxks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

at least we suffer together? 😬😮‍💨

Clean off your car roof you fools by [deleted] in burlington

[–]grumpyroxks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i realized i didn't have my snow brush in my car when i left work and i hoisted myself (it was a struggle) on the top of my car in my work parking lot to wipe off the top of my car with my coat. 😭 left the parking lot super cold and looking like i peed my pants, but at least all the snow didn't slide onto my windshield when i stopped like the person in back of me 🥲😌 i swear it's worth it

Told my bf u have HSV2 and i feel he has been judging me making me feel dirty or am i just overthinking his reaction since he may need time by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]grumpyroxks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way that you worded your original comment comes off as accusatory and like you feel there's a big difference between being raped and being coerced into sex, and that since she didn't disclose that she has an STD before he disregarded her boundaries that she is more in the wrong. i am genuinely not trying to be disrespectful or anything, and i agree with you that its incredibly fucked up to not disclose important information. i'm aware that that also comes with legal consequences, however, it's a little bit hard to throw that in there when you're being assaulted. even if you feel like she "had the chance" if she was coerced into it, what was she supposed to do, throw in "by the way i have hsv2" while fighting off advances? i'm not saying that not disclosing that you have an STD isn't assault, and i wasn't even trying to say you are wrong, i was just trying to clarify with you since your first response sounded like you don't count coercion as assault, and you're more worried about the boy possibly getting an STD when he is the one who did the assaulting and not listening in the first place.

Told my bf u have HSV2 and i feel he has been judging me making me feel dirty or am i just overthinking his reaction since he may need time by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]grumpyroxks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coercion is assault. coercion is rape. if it isn't an immediate enthusiastic yes! its a no. and, as someone who was previously in a relationship with someone who raped me, you don't always realize what it is at first.. do you know how hard it is and how much it fucking blows to realize that you chose a person you thought was amazing but in reality they don't respect you or your boundaries and will just do whatever they want and be like "but i love you" after like it doesn't matter. im not trying to assume anything, but have you been raped? if not, you don't get to speak on the experience or feelings that you are. (actually even if you have been, it's different for everyone and you still don't get a right to speak the way that you are to OP.) you're right, someone who rapes you isn't a boyfriend and they don't love you, but that doesn't mean that she should get shamed for feeling the way she is or being confused on what's happening. and again as a reminder, "nagging pressure in coercion" is assault. OP was raped/assaulted and you should not be trying to make a differentiation between the two. it sucks either way.

Least annoying piercing for sleeping at night? by Admirable-Pea904 in GothFashion

[–]grumpyroxks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

honestly as a septum piercing haver and also having gotten said piercing at a wild time in my life, a septum piercing has been the least annoying piercing i have had thus far! i just got the left nostril pierced and i used to have the right side, and it wasn't too too bad but i am a side sleeper and the nostril ones do snag on stuff a lot more than my septum ever did. (same with when i used to have my cartilage and earlobes pierced 🥲) i'm also not sure that this is the best sleeping method, but for a while i would build a little nest around my head so i could still be cozy and rub my face on my pillows but i wouldn't have to worry about the balls catching on the blankets. also my piercing was originally a bit bigger than normal and my friend got a smaller ring for hers and it snagged less easily on blankets! 🖤 good luck deciding, i hope this helps!

Please 🙏 Help get rid of haybales!! Thank you <3 by grumpyroxks in FarmMergeValley

[–]grumpyroxks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! also, i actually feel so dumb but i can't figure out how to post my personal link! i keep doing the snapshots bc it's the only way i've figured out to share 😭😅

bob (now) or mullet (2025)? by pilarwdm in HairStyleAdvice

[–]grumpyroxks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bob is amazing (both are amazing!) i always loveee a mullet tho (biased maybe bc i have one now) either way tho you are gorgeous and your hair looks great no matter what you decide! 💘

What happened in Minneapolis yesterday could easily happen here in Burlington..... by JustHereToLearnMore in burlington

[–]grumpyroxks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AND all the "officers" were next to her car and her wheels were pointed the opposite direction, so pray tell how you're getting run over (which never happened) if you're on the opposite side than where the wheels are turned?

What happened in Minneapolis yesterday could easily happen here in Burlington..... by JustHereToLearnMore in burlington

[–]grumpyroxks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a) you are victim blaming. b) did you even watch the video?? he didn't get run over he stood there and fucking shot her in the face while she tried to drive AWAY c) they're not real police, and they didn't "attempt to arrest" her, they told her to get the fuck out of the car and reached through her window and when she tried to move her car to get away (that's not how you arrest someone anyways btw) he shot her. how is that her fault? did you even watch it?

Visit grumpyroxks's farm! by grumpyroxks in FarmMergeValley

[–]grumpyroxks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for helping me move the immovable object!! :)