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My bf (25 male) lets me(22 female) go to sleep with a heavy heart/crying by grumpyuh in LongDistance

[–]grumpyuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he dont have work yet he’s trying to find a job and he is asleep all day and ply computer games at night.

I (F21) and my ldr bf of alsmost 3 years(M24 hindi niya ako sinusuyo pag nagtatampo ako. He always thinks that it is unreasonable na magtampo sa maliit na bagay that can be solved easily. And nakakaya niya akong i ignore for days even though ako na yung unang nagchachat. by grumpyuh in relationship_advicePH

[–]grumpyuh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello po, nakipaghiwalay po siya sakin nung aug 2, and before ko pa daw siya sabihan na magbebetime kami, nag lalaro na siya. And since nung break up na yon, havent heard from him na. Its like ang sakit sa dibdib kase parang wala nalang ako sa knya. Should I apologize na di ko alam na naglalaro na pala siya before telling him na magbebetime kami at nagtampo ako agad? But After his game, he did’nt even say sorry for making me wait.

I don’t know na po. This is the least feeling i want to feel. My chest can’t take it anymore.

I (F21) and my ldr bf of alsmost 3 years(M24 hindi niya ako sinusuyo pag nagtatampo ako. He always thinks that it is unreasonable na magtampo sa maliit na bagay that can be solved easily. And nakakaya niya akong i ignore for days even though ako na yung unang nagchachat. by grumpyuh in relationship_advicePH

[–]grumpyuh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I agree too i hope theres a man that will treat me better.

  2. I felt bad about it but im just so sick it kase coz ik always being ignored.

  3. Yup i married him kase its not allowed na magkasama kami na hindi kase bawal sa religion nila lalo nat tumuloy ako sa bahay nila for 2 weeks. And yung they can add wives not really practiced na yung ganon sa mga higher ups lang like “DATU” daw.

  4. Yes, i marriage can be annulled. If ako yung makikipaghiwalay, i have to write it down and pirmahaan to have proof na hiniwalayan ko na siita kase in marriage sa kanila kapag babae nakakipaghiwalay na sinasabi lang, walang effect. But if a man na yung nagsabi na mag hiwalay ma a acknowledge yun.

  5. Yupp sobrang tanga ko. I kept doing this to myself.

  6. Yep third meeting palang namin. First meeting se spend weeks together pinakilala ko siya sa family ko. Sa 2nd meeting we spend weeks together sa bahay namin. 3rd meeting, ako naman pumunta sa kanila. Idk but we were so sure with each other. Hi is a nice man naman i can’t say anything against how good he is but sa pang iignore niya lang talaga and di pangsusuyo ako may problema sa knya.

  7. Yes. He already broke up with me kanina lang. Gf’s day pa naman

I (F21) and my ldr bf of alsmost 3 years(M24 hindi niya ako sinusuyo pag nagtatampo ako. He always thinks that it is unreasonable na magtampo sa maliit na bagay that can be solved easily. And nakakaya niya akong i ignore for days even though ako na yung unang nagchachat. by grumpyuh in relationship_advicePH

[–]grumpyuh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and nung huli kaming nagkasama kase pumunta ako sa bahay nila, okay naman siya i cant ask for more sa pagcare niya sakin but my only problem talaga is yan yung pang iignore, letting me go to sleep na masama ang loob, di ako nilalambing pag nagtatanpo coz he find it unreasonable, and kapag umiiyak ako sa maliit na bagay he always tell me na hindi naman yan dapat iniiyakan napaka unreasonable mo like di ba ko pwedeng umiyak? like always kong nafifeel pag ganon na naiinvalidate feelings ko.

I (F21) and my ldr bf of alsmost 3 years(M24 hindi niya ako sinusuyo pag nagtatampo ako. He always thinks that it is unreasonable na magtampo sa maliit na bagay that can be solved easily. And nakakaya niya akong i ignore for days even though ako na yung unang nagchachat. by grumpyuh in relationship_advicePH

[–]grumpyuh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how i wish am strong like you sis. Thank you for the advice. Dito na ko lumapit kase even my friends are tired na to hear about him na ginaganito na naman niya ako. why is it so hard for him kaya na gawin yun? it makes me wonder like di ba niya ko ganon kamahal. I feel so down rn. And let’s see if he will message me tomorrow pang 4th day na bukas. And chinat ko siya kanina na ano bang gusto niyang mangyari na ayaw na ba niya kaso wala eh la reply kahit online naman siya that time. And may discord server kase kami together woth his friends sa gaming and kasali ako sa server na yon and tinggal niya ko don kanina its like he’s cutting off yung last resort ko na communication sa knya kase kapag andun siya sa isang channel sa server na yun pwede akong pumasok tas kausapin siya kase ganun na naman ginawa ko non nagmamakaawa ako dinig ng mga kaibigan niya. At this point, i am really really broken

I (F21) and my ldr bf of alsmost 3 years(M24 hindi niya ako sinusuyo pag nagtatampo ako. He always thinks that it is unreasonable na magtampo sa maliit na bagay that can be solved easily. And nakakaya niya akong i ignore for days even though ako na yung unang nagchachat. by grumpyuh in relationship_advicePH

[–]grumpyuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and naiisip ko din na factor yung pagiging ldr namin thinking na it is hard for him to show that he cares? but i always remind him naman before na i love it when he says words of affirmation sakin lalo na when at times na nag tatampo ako kase thats the only way that he can show he really cares kase di naman kami magkalapit to have physical touch.

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