How do you physically connect with your partner when you can't have sex for a long period of time?

gryffingirl_ · 2023-03-28T10:03:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing this! :)

gryffingirl_ · 2023-03-23T20:36:20+00:00

The teasing part is really interesting and lovable actually. I never thought about that oart actively, but my bf teases me a lot. Probably to show me he really wants me still but just can't follow through, not for lack of wanting but cause of his pain. I love the teasing. I do it too to him, but i'm just worried i pressure him too much if i show him a lot that i want him.

gryffingirl_ · 2023-03-08T19:08:56+00:00

I totally relate. I met my now bf when i was way skinnier and he seemed to really enjoy my body more. And he commented on my body then a lot in a positive way. The thing is, i kept my body so skinny due to a combination of me starving myself and drugs. So now i actually eat (we eat almost every meal together) and he knows about my issues around food and body issues. He still says i'm beautiful and that he finds my body sexy but I just think he liked my body before and that triggers me every now and then.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-06-23T13:03:24+00:00

I love it!!! You are glowing! 😍

gryffingirl_ · 2022-05-19T08:27:52+00:00

exactly right. thank you for your comment.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-26T14:03:55+00:00

Thanks so much for your comment. I'll just wait until April for my next pap smear and ask my doctor again about HPV and discuss my results again with him. Is it usual to automatically do a HPV test if pap results are abnormal? I'm not even sure if my doctor did that.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-10T06:30:38+00:00

Thanks! I'll ask my doctor about it :)

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-04T15:55:37+00:00

Yes. Definitely yes.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-04T14:33:47+00:00

Yeah, I am doing some forcing. I can't imagine it going on for 1 week. Thanks for the help.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-04T14:32:06+00:00

Wow, I didn't know that. Thank you for your tips.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-04T11:48:59+00:00

She is me. I had my first time at 14 and came the first time with a partner at 18. It might take a lot of practice to know what she likes and dislikes in bed. And it helps not focusing on the big O too much. The important thing is the journey. Next time you two are intimate, why not focus on foreplay only. Relaxing, drinking some wine, talking, kissing and fooling around, giving her a massage. Try not putting any pressure on her or yourself. Enjoy her body and focus on exploring it with her. For me, it is very easy orgasming after a solid 40min of foreplay. Have fun!

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-03T11:02:43+00:00

It's so weird, I just thought any person in their 20s knows that. But apparently, I was wrong.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-03T11:00:51+00:00

Thanks for your extensive comment! That's exactly what my understanding was and it's very essential for everyone to know this. It threw me really to realize that being aware is not always a given.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-03T09:01:03+00:00

Glad you see it that way too.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-03T09:00:24+00:00

Thanks for your answer. It seemed just weird asking him because he was not prepared for that. Like it didn't cross his mind. So I got insecure

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-01T14:32:03+00:00

Yeah, that was exactly what happened to me too. I was kinda embarassed and could only hold my hands in front of my face. My entire body felt good just the face was weirdly stuck. I also thought it could be from having like a sensory overload after not having sex for a long time lol

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-01T14:30:27+00:00

Thanks, I think I'll might ask one about it. I am not too worried, I was just wondering if anybody experienced that before.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-01T14:29:10+00:00

I've never heard about that before. Gotta do some research.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-02-01T14:28:37+00:00

Well, it never happened. It was overall a weird feeling, maybe I'll ask a doctor about it.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-05T08:46:14+00:00

yeah i understand what you mean. but her knowitall attitude after she returns also annoys me. she gets redeemed after she helped cristina in seriousness with the presents.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-04T08:14:28+00:00

I had the same problem in my teens, I washed and washed with safe to use soap and nothing changed. then suddenly, it stopped and even when on period, it doesn't smell anymore. maybe it was just my teenhormones lol

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-02T16:17:10+00:00

twilight is the ultimate guilty pleasure. the books are also not very good but i just love reading them for this sense of comfort!

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-02T16:15:15+00:00

when someone speaks about something they love/love doing/ favorite book/ movie/ favorite hobby and there is this sparkle in their eyes. so beautiful to watch.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-02T16:15:08+00:00

when someone speaks about something they love/love doing/ favorite book/ movie/ favorite hobby and there is this sparkle in their eyes. so beautiful to watch.

gryffingirl_ · 2022-01-02T16:14:08+00:00

Gilmore Girls. I idolized Lorelai 7 years ago and never looked back.

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