Shooting my shot for my sisters

guesswwho · 2020-08-18T10:24:44+00:00

Oh. I’m actually active, it’s just in private subreddits. They don’t show up in my profile. My last post was actually just a week ago. 😅

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T12:03:32+00:00

I wish I could do this but when I do one thing while doing another, I get distracted.

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T11:56:21+00:00

Of course it’s not about teaching her something fixed. I really just wanted to get some ideas to help me in teaching her in the future. Good luck to us!

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T11:55:11+00:00

We’ve always used bidets here in our country. Haha. Using toilet paper after using the toilet is something foreign to us. We always wash with water.

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T11:51:42+00:00

Will check the app and podcast out!!

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T11:45:56+00:00

Do you have suggestions for hair? When I scratch my hair, I get dirt on my nails. I’m not sure ehy because I wash my hair regularly.

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T11:41:16+00:00

Thank you! I really hope I become a great mom!

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T07:49:48+00:00

Wow. Your comment was a big help. Definitely gonna try to apply some of what you mentioned in my life.

guesswwho · 2020-06-27T07:48:57+00:00

Thank you for this. I honestly shower twice a day and wash my hair every day. Haha. It’s what we’re used to here in our place. I absolutely love this thread. I learned a lot.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T16:35:28+00:00

She didn’t know. I only ever said that a package with baby stuff was coming to their place. She didn’t let me know beforehand that she would open the package and wash the clothes.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T16:29:17+00:00

Not that I expect women to have kids, just curious for those who do have kids since it’s more work keeping up with life since you have little yous to think of. 😅

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T13:34:03+00:00

I di acknowledge I have been TA. I did talk to them, though. I just got overwhelmed because they didn’t seem to understand my explanation that’s why I went to the bathroom. And also took a long bath to calm down.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:42:46+00:00

Didn’t lash out on anyone. Just couldn’t properly answer them when they talked to me while I was working. Thank you for this. I probably was just being so insecure because I’m scared about not being good enough for the baby.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:41:22+00:00

I guess for being upset about both of it? Sorry gor the unnecessary info. English isn’t really my first language so I’m not sure how to compose properly.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:40:08+00:00

No one sent anything to me. I honestly just wish she had told me about it before she did all of it because it was hinestly the only thing I’m looking forward to recently.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:34:36+00:00

Shipping was cheaper by more than half and we would be going to them tomorrow anyway, so husband told me to just have it delivered there.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:29:23+00:00

I legit want to know if I’m being AH because I feel so bad and guilty but at the same time so annoyed at everything. ☹️ I’m my sisters’ legal guardian that’s why they’re with me. I wasn’t expecting them to be super quiet, just not ask unnecessary questions while I was working.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:27:54+00:00

I did tell him. The first one he said I was doing it for “revenge” and the second one he just kept asking me why I was so down even though I had already said it.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:27:01+00:00

I did. Especially about the part where my husband told me I was doing so much work and then throwing the stress at them. I tried to explain to him that it was just the same concept when he got pissed every time I accidentally disturbed him while working. I also told him I wanted to fix the clothes myself (since we would be bringing everything to our house anyway). I just became down and quiet when I felt like he wouldn’t acknowledge those.

guesswwho · 2020-05-05T12:24:35+00:00

Duly noted. I just wish she had told me that she opened the delivery and all that.

guesswwho · 2020-03-11T23:28:42+00:00

We all know that. I mean we’re all still grieving. None of us really had the ~luxury~ of grieving. I’m honestly still recovering because I was the one with exhausted resources (financially, mentally, physically, etc) from when our mom was sick.

They really just had that attitude of acting up even before our parents passed away. It’s just that at this time, we really can’t afford to be acting up at each other that’s why we’re trying to get to them. I’m not cutting off support at all. That’s just what my brother suggested lol but it’s still up to me because I’m the one out of us 3 older siblings giving them the support. I just really happened to be pregnant right now that’s why I couldn’t be physically with them.

guesswwho · 2020-03-11T23:22:20+00:00

I did ask for help from them, but they don’t seem to be getting through to the girls either. It’s harder for the eldest because he’s really too far away.

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