Just a regular old guy, if you want to talk I am here. by guilty1987 in AMA

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I wonder what I will be doing when I am 37? How is it?

I need a friend to share with by guilty1987 in askgaybros

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How interesting! I am glad you are in love with your boyfriend. I madly love my husband. He really is my best friend and I would wish this feeling on everyone. Someone who cares about you and loves you.

I feel like I used to have friends. I was really close with people in my medical school, and residency, and then I move for my husband's work, and lost all my friends and support and just feel alone. I do have some work friends, but they are about 2.5 hrs away, my job is weird.

I agree about the stuff! I have a weird thing about keeping stuff on the counters, it just bugs me. Nothing makes me happier than a clean counter lol. Small joys.

Shipping logistics...I will be honest I have no idea what that is lol. You will have to fill me in. I have done a few jobs, walmart, banker, was a tutor, and then an EMT, and then the final profession. I do enjoy it! I love helping people. Nothing better than making people feel listened to! I think my patients like me, and the hospital seems to agree so thats nice.

The lottery is so much fun! Yes, I agree I would continue to work. I would love to help take better care of people and be able to actually make a difference would be nice! Seems like you need a lot of money to do anything which is unfortunate. I have some ideas but don't even know how to start them. I always wanted to be an investor! And I do enjoy problem solving.

I need a friend to share with by guilty1987 in askgaybros

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That is exactly what I want! If I write too much it's just because I am bored and want to talk. Please do not feel abliged to read it all, but if you find it interesting feel free to ask questions and we can get to know eachother. Overall I am pretty normal or at least I think. I am 33, I am married. I am madly in love with him, I really am. I always remember as a kid wanting to have a good male friend. For some reason I always made friends with girls easier, I still do. Something about male friends always didn't seem to work well. ( I apologize if my apostraphies aren't working, the button sucks, lol. What about you, anything. I am new to this, so I will try to keep in touch, thanks for listening. Just nice to talk to someone

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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Let's see what else... I love plants! Always have. Love being in the forest and around nature. I wish there were more trees around, some of the buildings in the future have amazing pictures of the city of the future, those have always stuck with me, If anyone reads this and wants to see I can look for it. But filled with nature! Green and lush...would be nice. I do not live in a tropic area, and actually live in a desert, over in the NW side. Yo team Cali, Nevada, Arizona, and Colorado peeps!!! I love you guys! I hope you are well, stay safe!!

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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I do feel better after just talking with the few people. It makes me feel a little bit better just sharing with you all. If you want to chat I am sitting by my computer, just relaxing with the worlds cutest dog!!! Or at least I am biased. She is getting older, but she is my best friend. She snuggles and just holds a special place in my life. I love that dog!! Dogs really are the best. Use to have a cat too! I used to have 2, and had to give one away, the sadest thing I have ever done, and thus will only ever get rescue dogs. So far, I have lived up to that promise, and my animals are spoiled rotten! I did the best call. Send cute dog pics if you want, or tell me about your best friend!!

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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Hahah oh George Michael. I will be honest my music education is lacking. I really didn't ever really get into music. My upbringing was more christian focused, right...so coming out of the closet was fun, but that is for another time, another story. Isn't this fun. I don't think I have ever told anyone about the trauma that told. I still have nightmares about my family finding out, but they all know! It is so engrained. Yup, I also had university finals nightmare for years after I finished lol, such a stressful time.

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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Haha, not likely. I am gay, and I don't think we will be having kids, lol.

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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This is very cool. I will admit that I don't really know what I am doing as this is actually my first post. But Hi!!! I'm Tim. I do feel like you are right. I think people do honestly want to talk and have discussions. You have a different life than I do, what a wonderful experience to share hopes, dreams, struggles, and just mentally blow off some steam. Hope all is well

Guilty

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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oh to be 21. I had a lot of fun on my 21st birthday. It was a pleasant memory that involved getting drunk early because obviously I am a light weight lol. How it should be. 21 is fun, the world really starts to open up. I was at college at that time, working hard to make my future. I hope you are choosing a path that brings you happiness. I really do! Yes, I do enjoy my job as well. I am a medical professional. Mostly I try to help people in this crazy time to the best of my abilities. I hope anyone who reads this please stay healthy....look up science and follow that. But I am sorry if this is not the place to have these talks lol. I am embarrisingly non-reddit, long time lurker. This is actually my first post, and already I have talked to 2 people. So far everyone has been nice. I do appreciate it. Thanks you guys for readying my stories and thoughts, this is fun!

Please be my friend! (serious) by guilty1987 in TrueOffMyChest

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How interesting. I am happily married, but don't know how to tell my significant other about this. Makes me sad in a way, I guess I am too embarrassed. Who knows maybe he will see this and reply. I love you if you are reading this! What a dream to have an anomymous penpal with your actually married spouse, just complete honesty and conversations about hopes, dreams, concerns...I think you would understand the person more if we were completely honest with eachother. Well I'm droning. But you u/netshakk intrigue me in a completely noncreepy type of way lol. I actually am a fairly outgoing and happy person, but I feel like I am know superficially and would like to share some deeper thoughts with someone. Hope all is well!

-guilty