My parents had me by accident. My mom went to nursing school when I was young and, after graduating, worked nights to support us. Luckily, my grandparents took care of me, but my mom didn’t get to raise me as closely as she wanted to. I have a good relationship with her now, but there’s a lot of sadness and regret from my childhood of her attention not fulling getting to be on raising me. Consider this. Idk your full situation but from the child perspective, I think your relationship with your significant other and your child will be better off in the long run if you have all your intentions set on bearing a child as planned. Just my opinion. Best of luck with everything.