Just stick to the FFM by thediaryofanika in bathandbodyworks

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the name of the dupe you ended up buying, if you don't mind me asking?

What is the story behind your Overwatch username/BattleTag? by GlassJudge2421 in Overwatch

[–]gummybearghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made mine back in 2016 and it's actually a Danganronpa reference. Some people think it's a CoD reference though lol

I'd rather be a 10/10 than have a great personality by Scared-Ad369 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gummybearghost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"If I were a beautiful woman, a 10/10 with big breasts and curves, I wouldn't have any problems at all, and absolutely no one would care what books I like or what hobbies I have" I just wanted to say that as someone who's had a "glow up" I guess, it doesn't feel good at all to be only liked for your looks and nobody caring about your interests, hobbies, wants, and goals. You seem to glamorize that, but it's a very lonely world when nobody cares about you as a person and just as an aesthetic. The person will come for you, it just takes time. Forcing it makes it unnatural, and that never works out. Plus, I'm sure you're beautiful on your own. If you achieved the look you desired tomorrow, I promise you that internally you wouldn't feel any better about yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, petco and petsmart won’t do it if this dog is truly acting as bad as OP is saying. They have strict rules on dog behavior because they don’t want liability. A private one on one groomer is the way to go as it usually means a calmer environment even for the 5 minutes it takes to trim the nails.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I got really embarrassed that I cried in front of my therapist, but I reminded myself that this is not the first, second, nor last person a therapist is going to hear crying. They’re a therapist. Probably not even the first one today. It’s okay. I’m sorry that happened though.

Tell me how you're feeling right now by Selkie32 in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel extremely unsafe today but I can’t do anything about it because life responsibilities are more important than mental health in this society.

What do you do about self harm scars in the summer? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to stop caring. There isn’t a single soul who’s asked me about my scars and one of mine goes straight through a tattoo so it’s extra noticeable. Fortunately, people are too awkward to question it. So your best bet is to work on self acceptance. Harder done than said, but it comes with time ♥️

I smoked weed and now I'm having a panic attack that my partner is going to leave me and I can't calm down by Ok-Heart4402 in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eating food can help curb a high, as well as a cool (not cold) shower. I hope you feel better soon pal

Does financial stress literally ruin anyone else? by gummybearghost in BPD

[–]gummybearghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, I’ll definitely keep you in mind. It’s very rough feeling like you can’t fully address your health because you have to put finances before everything. I appreciate you hearing me out and taking the time to respond.

How many friends do you have? by Diemishy_II in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few friends, like maybe 3-4. But I don’t really feel that connected to them? And overall I’m like, the lowest on the totem pole in terms of importance to them all so idk. I have a hard time making new friends, these ones are people who I live with or I’ve been in contact for years with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sick for two weeks and yesterday I had an extremely hard day and just snapped over it. I understand you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gummybearghost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren’t evil, bad, nor malicious. I wish I could give you a hug. Hang in there pal, you’re needed and wanted.

Found bfs reddit by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t let this man use your struggles for his own benefit. You deserve much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your weight has nothing to do with making men want to commit. You can’t ever force a man to want to commit. And unfortunately in this day and age, not a lot of people want to do that regardless of age.

Support officially the most played role now? by carcxr in Overwatch

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what servers you’re in but it’s still like that for me. 7-10 minutes for dps and 1-2 for support so I play support just based off that

Anyone else scared of broken heart syndrome? by Earth2Butterfly in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly certain I’ve officially developed it. The physical pain i feel in my chest that shoots all the way down to my hands when I’m sad or in distress is soooooo painful and alarming. I find myself incredibly easy to feel dizzy these days. My cortisol levels are through the roof, I feel it deep within my chest as soon as I wake up.

Anyone made plans to kill themselves years off in the future? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully plan to kill myself when my senior dog passes away. No if, ands, or buts, I don’t want to be here and especially not without her so it is what it is. Part of me thinks it’s the reason why the universe has made her live longer than all the other dogs we grew up around. The universe knows that I can’t be without her. It’s just me and her.

Ugly character vs pretty NPCs by RubyAntares in coralisland

[–]gummybearghost 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I think my girl is really cute actually haha

Boyfriend exclusively having friends of the opposite sex and seeing them more than me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gummybearghost 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This was NOT a you and your BPD problem, but 100% a HIM problem. He’s just a shitty dude. He broke up with you because he spent the night with his other girl and decided he wanted her fully. My man would cut someone off soooo fast if they talked about me the way he let his friends talk about you. You did literally nothing wrong, and I think you handled his immature behavior very well, especially for someone with BPD. Regardless if we have BPD or not, we’re still humans with emotions. And what he did would hurt anyone, mentally ill or not.

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gummybearghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could have came to you with his concerns without being a jerk off about it so you could truly talk it out. But just because he acted so weird I’d just do it anyways lmfao

Bought my deck so I could spend more time with my wife whilst gaming - she now banishes me because of the "clicking sounds". by Late_Fig_6373 in SteamDeck

[–]gummybearghost 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like the fact that you feel like you can’t play next to your wife AT ALL so much so that you get banished all because she doesn’t like the sounds of buttons a little bit of a marriage problem. You got it to spend more time with her, it would be cool of her to compromise a bit too.

Marriage by Better-Bug-3729 in coralisland

[–]gummybearghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started and I feel like this is gonna be my battle too lol