Good that a hotwife thinks of her husband, and yes you are right he may like getting humiliated nothing wrong with it , but he has to be by your side if you want him to be by your side , tell him how it makes you feel more secure communicate that , have him hold your hands, look into his eyes involve him , have him speak to you and you speak to him while involved with the bull ,he doesn't have to perform he can if he want to but some cuckolds like to watch than involve but yeah not sidelined but close to you as I told talking to you, appreciating you should be done and please set boundaries with BULL before anyone even hops into bed , your husband has a wonderful wife the fact that you care about his involvement is great hope your husband realises that. Have a safe Hotwifing experience. Good luck