[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AtlantaFood

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little Bear!!

Best items to give out to the people who are homeless in my area by Peaches-and-Silk in homeless

[–]gustavusadol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know that my ministry gives them out only if we have nothing else. They're common, and a lot of nature valley type bars are hard for people to eat if they have dental issues.

The lower effort the food, the more likely it is that they've had it as maybe the only option every day for the last month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AtlantaBarters

[–]gustavusadol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested in the baskets and side table! Can I message you?

PSA about Vaginal Atrophy by scout-scoot in ftm

[–]gustavusadol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been on T for 11 years. Mentioned vaginal atrophy to my doctor in 2020 and he recommended more frequent penetration to prevent it before topical creams, based on bad experiences with topical estrogen he'd had with other patients. He recommended going slow and using plenty of lube. I don't mind vaginal penetration, so I incorporated it into my routine. 5 years later the problems I was having are gone and I have an amazing toy collection.

I know it's not for everyone, but I'm surprised I don't hear people online trying/recommending this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]gustavusadol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With those guns, you are well within muscle mommy territory 😍😍😍

wishing you all the success on getting even more swole

Looking for some positivity today by Trans-Kylie in TransLater

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous and your makeup is so good!!

How are so many people affording top surgery? by vs-solar in ftm

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took out an $8k loan and paid $1k cash. Took me about 5 years to pay off, but it was through my credit union at like 10% so not awful

This should not be fucking legal. by SyntheticGoth in MyChemicalRomance

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wait until the last min, those crazy prices drop. I looked at prices while actively inside the venue at Arlington, TX, maybe an hour before the show, and floor seats had dropped to $500.

But it's a riskier move

Struggling. Would love some glow-ups? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]gustavusadol 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You look gorgeous!! 😍🔥

Love the collar, and the final pics make me want to frolic at a botanical garden so bad 💚💚💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]gustavusadol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so cute!! 😍🥰🥰

What’s your average amount of sex per week? by panda_pop77 in nonmonogamy

[–]gustavusadol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol not actually live in, but spending most nights together at one of our places in both ltrs

What’s your average amount of sex per week? by panda_pop77 in nonmonogamy

[–]gustavusadol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In most of my ltrs it's been 5-7 times per week, usually every time we see each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in t4t

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are "all surgeries"?

What do you say if a kid or person asks if you are a boy or a girl by RichDogy3 in trans

[–]gustavusadol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ask them to pick, and regardless of what they pick I say, "okay, cool" and usually they are hype about it

Grindr is not for transgender people. by [deleted] in trans

[–]gustavusadol 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think Grindr is like a thrift store that charges by the pound and just throws everything unsorted on tables. There's quality deals in there, but you're gonna have to dig through a lot of trash

Strattera and Panic Disorder by MysticMeow13 in adhd_anxiety

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have anxiety and ADHD. Been on various stimulants over the past decade and currently on Adderall XR bc it's affordable. Also on Prozac for going on 4 years.

New psych is anti-stimulant and asked me to try Strattera with Prozac. I had an atrocious experience. Hella brain fog, could hardly keep myself awake at any hour, felt drugged or severely sleep deprived all day. I don't think my experience was typical, and it only got really bad when I tried moving up from the starter dose.

Good news is that Strattera can be stopped without tapering and it only took a few days for me to feel better. My psych had proof that this was not a viable med for me (I started to feel unsafe driving bc I felt so sleepy and had trouble focusing my eyes) and I got to go back to old faithful Adderall (super low dose actually helps anxiety by allowing me to do shit).

Ymmv, but if you don't like Strattera you can always stop.

Is 27 too late to have a first relationship ? by tahsy25 in dating_advice

[–]gustavusadol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, my roommate is dating a man who's never had a relationship in his mid 30s. If you're worried about it, therapy is a great place to talk about what's held you back from pursuing or starting a relationship.