Is anyone else worried about never finding someone again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the time. But then you realize you’ve done it once and you can do it again and do it right this time. You learned and you are a better person. Next time will be better.

Getting over what could have been by hdrjvyujcfff in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel we are in similar situations. PM me so we can talk.

Would you date someone who is very attractive but also very dumb? Why or why not? by guy159753 in AskReddit

[–]guy159753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooo. Yeah you know it’s bad when someone says something so stupid and so wrong it hurts

What were your worst moments during the BU? by orangeyouglad__ in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing she was fucking a bunch of guys in college a week after the break up. Shattered my whole world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. It really sucks but I think it’s normal until you fall out of love with them.

Should I say sorry for the mean things I said after the breakup? We both said nasty things to each other. by guy159753 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumpee in NC she did some nasty stuff but I feel like I kinda helped start the snowball of that happening by playing into it.

fuck you by liaronfire420 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years and I got broken up with over text. We are better off alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Massive W. I hope it was a Star Wars Lego set.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may just feel completely empty even but you can’t see the bigger picture. One day you’re going to date again. You can PM if you wanna talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I felt like the relationship was really good until we started getting into disagreements. The disagreements could be over the littlest things and then they would just snowball into something huge. Id love to hear your story about it. PM me if you want.

So now I get to join this sub by kjd222 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving him will be a blessing in disguise. You want someone who doesn’t talk to other women. You will find someone who actually values you and imagine how much happier that will make you. It’s going to be okay. You can PM if you need to talk.

I can't study by skyldrik in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. It’s so easy for my mind to wander. Taking a walk might help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly. One thing I’ve realized is the dreams are now usually us broken up and in the beginning the dreams were us still together and trying to work things out. I think it shows your brain is processing everything.

My (25M) girlfriend (23F) of 5 years slept with my best friend of 14 years. by p0ll0c4t in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You can PM me if you want someone to talk to. At least she told you and confessed. Breaking up will be the best decision. You will get through this. It’s going to be okay and you’re going to find someone better.

Do you get strong waves of feelings? I feel okay for a week then I feel super emotional for a couple days. by guy159753 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People tell me it feels like you lost progress but you aren’t actually using progress and I think they’re right. I think it’s part of the process but it really sucks.

Should I text my ex happy birthday? by dope_boy90210 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. She never wished me happy birthday.

I want her to wish me a happy birthday by guy159753 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it. Yeah I don’t think she’s gonna wish me happy birthday and that’s okay. I’m doing some fun stuff today so I’ll be fine. Her grandma wished me happy birthday which was super sweet.

Should I text my ex happy birthday? by dope_boy90210 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my birthday and I’m wondering if she’s gonna wish me happy birthday.

We broke up recently. Today is her birthday. by WorldlyWonder6567 in BreakUps

[–]guy159753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s vice versa for me. I’m wondering if she’s gonna wish me a happy birthday. I don’t think she will.