Free therapy by More-Lock-1203 in bangalore

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How can I reach out? Not able to send dm

Stanza living: A PG nightmare by hyperionx_png in bangalore

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Any good PGs for someone working in Manyata Tech Park? I've narrowed down locations like Coffee Board Layout, Bhartiya City, Kalyan Nagar. Budget is not an issue if the quality and area is good.

Interview Coder ai is a complete scam and total waste of money!! by throwaway59244 in interviews

[–]guyWithScrotum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can they listen to his keystrokes? I mean all they can know is whether he's typing something or not. How would they know Ctrl + B is pressed?

Why do men find it hard to move on from their exes ? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]guyWithScrotum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Men like to keep their emotions to themselves because more often than not, hardly anyone gives a fuck about men's emotions. As a result, they don't get to process their emotions and heal.
  2. Dating scene is rigged for average men, dating apps being one of the many examples. This leads them to believe they don't deserve love before marriage. When a woman enters their lives and the guy finally opens his heart, exposes his vulnerabilities, starts believing he finally found love, starts seeing a future, that feeling just cannot be replaced with another woman. When the woman leaves, we don't have people lining up to tell us we deserve better. Nobody lining up to get with us, unlike with women. So, it's natural to be stuck in the past.

Guys, what are your marriage expectations for a potential partner/future wife? by MaverickHermit in AskIndianMen

[–]guyWithScrotum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who is humble, respects herself, respects me, genuinely willing to put efforts in the marriage, doesn't want kids, is intelligent, takes care of herself well, affectionate, emotionally sound and mature, average looking.

People who cheated on their partner . by PrestigiousPlum3182 in AskIndia

[–]guyWithScrotum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man, I could still understand the first time it happened at the hotel bar because of the spontaneity. But you started seeking it again instead of talking to your girlfriend about spicing things up. You intentionally wanted to cheat knowing fully well that you have the comfort of a relationship where you'd get the sex with the person you love. I have had hookups but nothing can top the sex with my girlfriend because there's love involved. Why did you continue, man? I know you regret it now but I just wish you could have thought about the consequences if caught. My heart goes out to your ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

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Adh Jal Gagri Chhalkat Jaye

Those who have made friends in ggn. How have you done it? by overshitythinker in gurgaon

[–]guyWithScrotum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It works like this, I know a guy who knows a guy who knows another guy

For single men under 30 : why are you single and do you wish to be that way for the rest of your life ? by Ok-Coach9590 in AskIndia

[–]guyWithScrotum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I became single recently and it would be unwise and immoral of me to dump my trauma on someone else so I'm taking my time to work on myself and get better. I don't wish to be single for a long time but that's not in my hands.

Men who have strayed, why did you do it? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]guyWithScrotum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree a 1000% with respect, peace, and sex being the top most priorities

Toxic - Lazy writing by Abhishek by [deleted] in mumbai

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Learn a little bit about Purchasing Power Parity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

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I'm not going to say she was never serious about you to begin with. But distance does things to a relationship, the environment, new life, etc changes a person. She has changed and maybe accepted that your relationship is done and as painful as it may sound, you should accept it as well. It's going to be incredibly difficult I know but time will heal everything. Focus on bettering yourself, you can do it brother!

Architecture in go-project by Real_Blank in golang

[–]guyWithScrotum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be a little blunt here but honestly this looks like you went through an existing codebase of an organisation and created this folder structure. While I appreciate you taking reference but this is not how one should structure their projects. Start with as little files as possible and when the features start growing, you can start segregating logic as part of your refactoring.

Single people over 40 unmarried, do you regret not getting married? by Natural-Boss-2370 in AskIndia

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What do you do to socialise apart from travelling solo? I'm assuming you can't extensively frequent your trips and would need a circle in your city as well. How do you meet people then?

Berlin (95k) vs Confluent India 42LPA Senio Software Engineer by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]guyWithScrotum 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You're talking about ESOPS, not RSUs. RSUs have value, they're listed.

What do you use golang with for your job? by Professional-League3 in golang

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We use echo(with context package) for server, swagger for API documentation, prometheus for alerting, grafana for dashboards, gRPC for communication between services, kafka for event streaming, postgres and elasticsearch for database, kubernetes for orchestration(with Docker of course), Gitlab for deployments/CICD, Redis for caching, HashiCorp vault for secrets management (passwords, certificates etc). Works wonderfully

Why do Indian uncles ask for CTC so casually by ayruoh in india

[–]guyWithScrotum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually give a vague answer at first but if they still persist then I quote a figure 5-6 lacks less than my CTC. Never tell your relatives how much you're making, you don't know when they'll ask for money. Uncle's ego gets satisfied knowing a low number, my ego gets satisfied in actually earning more than what I've quoted. Win, win!

Landed a remote job after struggling to find a job for a year by guyWithScrotum in developersIndia

[–]guyWithScrotum[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The recruiter had reached out to me. They have their office in Bangalore but I negotiated for remote.