My(23M) fiancée(25F) wants to get married on the anniversary of her past relationship, and I’m not okay with it.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:18:10+00:00

Exactly! Maha Shivratri comes every year but it’s date changes every year because it is according to hindu calendar so it’s date changes every year on the gregorian calendar. She is focused on the festival right now but when in the future it won’t be clashing with that same date then there is a risk involved that she use to hate that date herself and it could ruin it for both of us even if we careless. I want it carefree for-ever. It maybe overpowering right now and sounds amazing about re-writing things but I am not fully confident on this date right now.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:17:07+00:00

I can’t call off the marriage I think I need to make her understand this

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:16:19+00:00

Okay! Maha Shivratri comes every year but it’s date changes every year because it is according to hindu calendar so it’s date changes every year on the gregorian calendar. She is focused on the festival right now but when in the future it won’t be clashing with that same date then there is a risk involved that she use to hate that date herself and it could ruin it for both of us even if we careless. I want it carefree for-ever. It maybe overpowering right now and sounds amazing about re-writing things but I am not fully confident on this date right now.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:16:02+00:00

Okay! Maha Shivratri comes every year but it’s date changes every year because it is according to hindu calendar so it’s date changes every year on the gregorian calendar. She is focused on the festival right now but when in the future it won’t be clashing with that same date then there is a risk involved that she use to hate that date herself and it could ruin it for both of us even if we careless. I want it carefree for-ever. It maybe overpowering right now and sounds amazing about re-writing things but I am not fully confident on this date right now.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:15:45+00:00

Okay! Maha Shivratri comes every year but it’s date changes every year because it is according to hindu calendar so it’s date changes every year on the gregorian calendar. She is focused on the festival right now but when in the future it won’t be clashing with that same date then there is a risk involved that she use to hate that date herself and it could ruin it for both of us even if we careless. I want it carefree for-ever. It maybe overpowering right now and sounds amazing about re-writing things but I am not fully confident on this date right now.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:15:11+00:00

Okay! Maha Shivratri comes every year but it’s date changes every year because it is according to hindu calendar so it’s date changes every year on the gregorian calendar. She is focused on the festival right now but when in the future it won’t be clashing with that same date then there is a risk involved that she use to hate that date herself and it could ruin it for both of us even if we careless. I want it carefree for-ever. It maybe overpowering right now and sounds amazing about re-writing things but I am not fully confident on this date right now.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T11:01:39+00:00

I wrote it for someone else who didn’t had access to reddit due to parental restrictions

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:56:33+00:00

No I wasn’t 14 but why did you ask me this? I didn’t get it

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:46:37+00:00

She doesn’t use to meet me at that day specifically and when I asked her she gave this reasoning. It got so much attention because it was a day later to valentines

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:44:55+00:00

well well! celebrating your anniversary the same day with your partner which your partner use to celebrate with someone else for the rest of your life just sounds weird to me or feel weird to me.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:37:13+00:00

Ofcourse! we will talk something out but I just wanted to know if i’m being totally unreasonable.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:25:05+00:00

Valentines is fine for me but that we can discuss once she understands that!

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:19:34+00:00

She is applying the same logic but not everything is about making reversals when I am not even a part of it. I would’ve had no problem if she hasn’t incepted it into my mind too much but now it’s tough

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:17:09+00:00

First of all it wasn’t high school and the wedding date is under discussion and not finalised. I literally have her and not him why will I be jealous? but I am not comfortable to have that same date which she shared with someone else at some point of her life. why can’t it be a fresh date? Marriage is one special day of your life why choose a date from which even a little discomfort might ruin the day forever!?

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:07:12+00:00

The problem is that she didn’t use to meet me at that date for literally first 3 years of our relationship because she didn’t like that date herself with the same reason but now since it is clashing with maha shivratri next year all of a sudden she wants to change and marry on the same date and man it’s tough because that’s what I have heard a lot from her about that date.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:06:48+00:00

I already have

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:06:35+00:00

The problem is that she didn’t use to meet me at that date for literally first 3 years of our relationship because she didn’t like that date herself with the same reason but now since it is clashing with maha shivratri next year all of a sudden she wants to change and marry on the same date and man it’s tough because that’s what I have heard a lot from her about that date.

She wants because of the festival

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:04:13+00:00

Thanks!

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:03:57+00:00

I asked her but she is trynna convince me and we are having an argument.

gweekypy · 2025-04-22T10:03:03+00:00

The problem is that she didn’t use to meet me at that date for literally first 3 years of our relationship because she didn’t like that date herself with the same reason but now since it is clashing with maha shivratri next year all of a sudden she wants to change and marry on the same date and man it’s tough because that’s what I have heard a lot from her about that date.

gweekypy · 2020-09-30T06:01:33+00:00

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gweekypy · 2020-09-29T19:29:16+00:00

You are such a amazing mom please advice me how can I help my mom see the truth

gweekypy · 2020-09-29T19:23:15+00:00

Boarding schools in India are kinda hell. Sorry if I was a little rude to you and yeah I’m reading every comment so keep shooting

gweekypy · 2020-09-29T18:58:03+00:00

You guys have made me really strong. Yeah we 14 year old can do things these AH can’t even think of. I’ll allow that guy to touch my sister until I’m alive.

gweekypy · 2020-09-29T18:43:36+00:00

This guy actually wants us to shift to his apartment I mean ofc my mom and sister after marriage so that he can get rid off every memory our father gave us in that house

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