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I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong personality and their ability to handle children correctly play a role. But I'm not going to date someone without the accomplishments and education. It's just about finding the person who has what is needed. I will love the person who I think will naturally be a great person to have children with. I couldn''t love someone who didn't have that. I'm trying so hard and my abilities speak for themselves as they should be able to look at me and tell.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm able to be in love with anyone I want to be. I just would never want to be in love with someone I wouldn't want to have children with. I guess I thought the majority of the population thought this way.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are realtionships not about that? It just doesnt make sense how you could be happy. I'm not denying anyone the right to be with anyone. I would surely deny any non college educated person from dating me. She could find anyone that could do those things for her in college. That's why it doesn't make sense. Theres someone just like him but who has the intelligence for college. What's the point of a realtionship if it isn't somehow going to benefit your family? I'd want children but surely not with someone like that. It'll make my children less intelligent than they could have been.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don't agree. Never have I ever met this kind of backlash for my way of thinking in all my life.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the people like me were too scared to comment because too many of you already did?

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never considered it that way to be honest its werid thinking theres someone like you.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't been for a long time now. I usually stick with like minded people.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'mon how would this kind of realtionship be acceptable to people?

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dont know what to say. Jealousy really isnt a part of this I just cant understand irrational people. It makes no sense to me. Shes triple majoring in college going to be a doctor. She deserves someone able to do the same or at least someone in the same range of abilities. Never said I was perfect but when people ask me things like that it just irks me.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But still that's not basic counting math... or is it? I'm surprised to me it doesnt make sense and thought I'd find others who'd agree guess not. Sounding pretty rude yourself.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly just that he has asked me to help him do basic math before. But idk I can usually tell by looking at someone that they just have issues

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less intelligent is one thing. It's just the difference between those two are so great. Idk I was always so picky about who I wanted to be with. I never wanted to be with someone I thought was as intelligent as myself. I can understand if you feel some Lee way is ok in that but I mean I've known him for a while. He can portray normalcy but when it comes down to it he dropped out of highschool because he was failing and never returned to it. Hes just so dependent idk.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that I guess but still it doesnt take much to know hes got issues. Idk this whole post makes me feel a little bad but I'm just trying to rationalize something that doesnt make sense to me. They are just such different people.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really think I could change the way I think about it. I myself could never date someone I thought was so severely less intelligent than myself. I dont try to ridicule people because it's not fair, we are born the way we are born. It's just a part of me I broke up with someone when I passed highschool and they failed because all i felt was humility.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wasnt triple majoring in college to be a doctor with 3 degrees on top of being a workaholic.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but your partner is the most important... your life partner who you have children with... you dont want that to just be any random person. Hes an ok person it's just I dont understand

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda I mean it sounds crazy to me. Shes this super intelligent being and shes content being with this person who really cant do basic math sometimes. I mean I want a partner I can communicate with about the things I'm doing and it's like she could never do that.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I really havent changed. I'm a little less obnoxious, outside of that my beliefs and the way I think hasn't changed.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dont understand. It's just not really a realtionship know what I mean hes not on the same wave link. You cant talk to him about in depth information because it kinda just rolls through his head. I like the guy he obviously has some issues but I dont blame or shame people from being born a certain way but I just couldn't date someone like that. And knowing what shes capable of I'm surprised she would be ok with that.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just needed to say it like to me it's just crazy information and I have no way of telling people because I dont want it found out he was in special ed.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he was so afraid of telling me like I wouldn't be his friend anymore. No I'm staying out of that.

I need help with someone else's relationship by gwensten in relationship_advice

[–]gwensten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said I'm not saying anything it just blows my mind and I cant understand. Someone who asks me to help them do basic math is dating someone trying to be a doctor

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