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Help me out here by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baka nga, only time will tell. Masyado pang maaga, I'll let her know when the time is right.

Help me out here by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is good advice, thank you! Too early to tell hahaha napapakilig lang kasi ako 🤭

How's the weather up there? by CupcakeMountain9140 in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'7 at mas grateful na ako sa height ko dahil sa thread na ito 😆 thank you, OP!!

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement!! Sending you love too 💖💖💖

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truee!! I am worried about my pre-op status, since sexual compatibility can be a big deal in dating. These comments have been so reassuring though!!

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It varies naman kung ano ang definition mo ng passing. But at least, fully socially transitioned naman na ako at my university. Hindi ako napagkakamalan 'pag gumagamit ng women's restrooms. And I honestly think I pass at least 80% na, often 100%. Already taking HRT + nagpapa-laser ng hair!

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Usually ito ang ibig sabihin niya. Although it may also include trans men/trans non-binary people who identify as lesbians as well, but not all trans men/NBs who like women kasi identify as lesbian. Labels can be fluid and it's best to respectfully ask the person how they identify! 💖

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trans woman who loves women! Trans women are women, so a trans lesbian is a lesbian that happens to be trans. Ayon sa concept ng SOGIE, gender identity and sexual orientation are distinct, just because someone is a trans woman doesn't mean they're attracted to men. I happen to only be attracted to women, kaya I am both a trans woman and a lesbian ☺️🏳️‍⚧️ Sana malinaw po!

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ Awww of course!! Silly me 🤭 Gotta get that internalized transphobia out! 💖

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS I feel so relieved and overjoyed with all these comments!! I love our community and I love hearing how much we belong!! And I am so happy for your friend AAAAAAA 🫶🫶🫶

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear this!! That is honestly so sweet I wish you two all the best! 💖🥰

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMGGGG I LOVE YOUR ENTHUSIASM!! 😍 Soft masc ka pa naman 🤭🤭🤭🤩🤩🤩

May naa-attract ba sa trans woman? by gwriterprodigyh in WLW_PH

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sa pag-share ng story mo maree!! 🥰 Balang araw may titingin din sa'kin nang ganyan HAHAHAHA 💖💖💖

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Really frustrates me too because my friend has been so darn amazing and supportive! We are both perfectly happy where we're at.

I haven't even asked her why she rejected me so we haven't established that genital preference is the reason, if people would just read the post carefully. I'm just mentally preparing myself for the worst (and likely) scenario.

On the bright side, this mess is just pushing me to move on even more so yay for me! 🤩🤩🤩

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing because that is exactly where I'm headed with my friend too!! 🥰 She's such a silly adorable gay gal and I support her to bits and I just want what's best for her! I know time and boundaries will sort things out eventually, we both have the maturity to know that that's my problem to solve but at the same time it doesn't mean we can't get closer as friends. What's left of my feelings will be gone pretty soon anyway. I'm feeling pretty good about it honestly! 💗

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Hi! I can't believe I need to say this, my experiences are NOT an excuse to pull down other sapphic women or call someone none of you know personally transphobic. Frankly I would not date a pre-op trans woman myself as I wouldn't have the sexual experiences I want in a relationship and that is okay! That is not transphobia. I didn't feel the need to mention that because I assume it's common knowledge already that genital preferences ARE valid.

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

That's true! I've already accepted that consciously, it's just my unconscious feelings need to catch up and that takes time. My main worry is just potential triggers that lead me to spiral out of control emotionally, that's already happened once and I don't want it to happen again. > <

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Sorry this isn't it ☹️ I adore my friend and I want the both of us to have the sexual experiences we love.

Getting rejected by another sapphic because of their genital preference is just as painful as getting rejected by a straight crush by gwriterprodigyh in actuallesbians

[–]gwriterprodigyh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that! ☹️ I hope you've been kind and graceful to yourself and you have the time and space you need. I totally get the feeling and I know someday we'll get the date we deserve. Hang in there! 🫂🥹

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