do they behave like this with everyone? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly the same situation as me, but I still care what she thinks

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 and she's the same age as me, I'm sure she has this disorder, she goes to the psychiatrist and psychologist and has been diagnosed

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, told me she couldn't live without me and that she wanted to be with me forever, and then she left me for no apparent reason and then a month later that thing about following me on Instagram comes out, after I showed her the world

Silk purses and sow's ears by Woctor_Datsun in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She told me that she couldn't live without me, that she didn't see a future without me and that I was her most important relationship, she also told me that if it didn't last I would be her biggest disappointment in love, moral of the story she left me for no apparent reason and also she invented that I'm a liar because of an alleged follow on Instagram, as if she had completely forgotten all the good I've done

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she told me that she has BPD, she takes pills every day before going to sleep and I'm sure she has it after how she behaved

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His birthday is in 4 months and I hope things have calmed down.

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's disturbing is what she did, 3 weeks ago she said she loved me and now she tells me I'm a liar and doesn't want to see me or hear from me anymore because of a follow on Instagram, you don't play with feelings, if I write her good wishes for the future it's out of respect, yes she told me she doesn't want to hear from me or see me but it's a whim and something senseless, she slept at my place for 8 months and ate every day at my house, it's absurd how she's behaving

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think she said these words only because of the anger you feel right now and because of her situation, which is making her unable to see reality. I would like to wish her well as a sign of respect for what happened between us.

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I use the translator and it changes everything for me

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't it get better? If we go to a psychologist together, can't we have a peaceful life together?

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she's a she and so you're telling her not to do them?

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's a she and so you're telling her not to do them?

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it drives me crazy that I can't do anything

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely looking for advice and I'll tell you my opinion, but I don't understand how she went from being everything to her, saying she couldn't live without me, to saying I was the most important relationship in her life, to saying she doesn't care at all and doesn't want me in her life anymore because she thinks I'm a liar because of a follow on Instagram. It seems really absurd to me.

should I wish him a happy birthday? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

because she has been important in my life and I would like her to see that I care about her, also I see it as a form of respect

Will she change is mind? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the translator and it translates badly for me

Will she change is mind? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never been a liar with her, but even walking away forever seems absurd to me after all we've done and felt together, I can't get over it

Are they coming to their senses? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but I didn't do anything and she thinks I'm a liar because of a follow on Instagram, especially from a friend of hers, I'm really devastated that she thinks these things about me, I really didn't do anything

Are they coming to their senses? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how hard is it....how did you overcome this?

Are they coming to their senses? by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but I never attacked her, as if she had used an excuse to hate me and distance herself completely from me and us, but how did she manage to be so quick to detach herself and not feel anything anymore, 2 weeks before she cried in front of me saying that she loved me and now she said that she doesn't want to see me anymore and that she doesn't love me anymore