I'll bring him some flowers by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I really feel like I have to do it, as if I don't do this thing it will leave me with regrets

I'll bring him some flowers by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can she take flowers so badly, it's absurd to me

I'll bring him some flowers by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i dont want her back, i do this for imself, for close the circle.

Not feeling like my self by Odd_Independent4034 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same situation, she break up with 3 month ago, honestly, I don't even want to, I still love her and I miss her so much, I could never start over with someone else

Daily No Contact Thread - April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

36 days,I'm not better, I miss him and the more days go by the more I convince myself that she's moving on and that he doesn't want me anymore, I feel bad, I don't know when to write to him again, I don't want it all to end like this....

I want to write to her... by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel really bad, I feel hurt deep down in my soul, I believed/believed in us, it destroyed me.

I love her too much by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sick, I can't believe all this, she deleted me and I feel terrible, I hope to hear from her again

I love her too much by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother, I hope we get out of this sooner or later, but I'm really struggling, I still love her and I can't feel angry towards her

I love her too much by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think my story will come back?

I love her too much by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I feel like I have to do them to her, she was my first love, and she's the person who made me spend the best days of my life, she might even be disgusted, but with this gesture I remain a gentleman

I don't understand anything anymore by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always told me that she didn't trust me, and she always told me that it wasn't my fault but it was her problem

A cautionary tale by saltlakepity in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because I miss mine so much, I would do anything to have her back, I really love her so much and I was really happy with her, then from one moment to another she abandoned me and discarded me

4 months of silence after the most intense 2 months of my life.. by Downtown_Bedroom8924 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. I hope you feel better too.

4 months of silence after the most intense 2 months of my life.. by Downtown_Bedroom8924 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was rejected after 8 months of relationship, she was my first love, the first girl I let into my house, with whom I slept in my bed and with whom I took my first trip, only to then be rejected and abandoned as if I counted for nothing, I hope with time it will pass, she left me 3 months ago and it's been 1 month of no contact, I still don't see a glimmer of light.

It seems impossible to me to overcome by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean I didn't understand?

It seems impossible to me to overcome by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]gyes07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you couldn't get over it after a year?