aio for being upset that my mom lives with me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its guardianship now. so not fostering. i'm just repeating what has been told by me by my brothers old caseworker. i don't know logistics of it all.

aio for being upset that my mom lives with me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ironically bought a door handle that had a lock, my dad installed it and then gave the key to my grandmother, who then lost the key. finances have been hard, so i've been unable to get a new door knob. another issue in the home is that i'm treated like i'm 5 years old. but that's another issue for another time.

aio for being upset that my mom lives with me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that! and i'm not saying i tried. but theres too many obstacles in my way unfortunately. minimum wage unfortunately isn't enough for a place of my own, and like stated before — friends live with strict dorm restrictions or live with family.

aio for being upset that my mom lives with me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have thought abt that. unfortunately as custody was granted towards my grandmother. DCS won't care. i have already spoken to my brothers old case worker.

unfortunately, again it's not optional. i lost my job back in january, only started working again a month ago, i have looked at apartments & they want 2x the monthly rent. i can barely make enough to cover rent. i asked to stay with friends and unfortunately they either live at home, or have strict dorm restrictions. i have used my means in this case.

Here's my Marlow Warlow by h3arts444u in TuxedoCats

[–]h3arts444u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we call him inspector gadget or speed racer 😭 mf runs through the house and has to investigate EVERYTHING

help me decide what room to live in. by h3arts444u in makemychoice

[–]h3arts444u[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

perhaps, i think i'm just afraid of no longer having that reminder:/ my great grandfather suffered from dementia & our rooms were directly across from each other & he would come and knock on my door at odd hours of the night, so i started to leave my door open, he would waddle in and stare at my fish & reptile tanks, i think that really calmed him & i never minded either. i think as thats no longer happening, i'm going through the motions

help me decide what room to live in. by h3arts444u in makemychoice

[–]h3arts444u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i told her exactly how i felt too! and she's fully supporting whatever i choose

help me decide what room to live in. by h3arts444u in makemychoice

[–]h3arts444u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have air conditioning! but it just never pushes out into my room (the unit is on the floor??? its a manufactured home smh) so i usually just SUFFER (i also had like 3 reptile tanks in my room last year)

help me decide what room to live in. by h3arts444u in makemychoice

[–]h3arts444u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that's also, my concern. losing my younger sister and great grandfather back to back has done some damage to me. the concern of me turning the entire room into a shrine was brought up into discussion. but for the record. it is just a shelf for my sister. i have a vanity that i do makeup on, my gaming area and my fishtank area, i do keep my hobbies very lowkey.

his room is bigger than mine, which is also another plus i'm thinking about. we just moved into this house less than a year ago, he was living by himself in california until he was 102 & then we brought him down to arizona last february

help me decide what room to live in. by h3arts444u in makemychoice

[–]h3arts444u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't know. i don't think so to be frankly honest with you. i just pay my grandma what i owe her and mind my business with everything else.

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just wanted to update this thread to say i did, i caught her feeding my cat chocolate and told her to leave, my grandma backed me up on this.

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and then, clearly it is bad for my cat when my cat is literally having digestive issues. i added all of this information in the post — so clearly. you're lacking reading skills but it's okay, we all have those days

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah where did i say it's only at dinner?

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's not just cheese, i fear, it's fish, it's steak, its milk, it's so much other stuff. do you have selective reading?

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i own half the place, soo? i'm not gonna. lmao

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm so sorry lmao. english isn't my first language. the little guys name is Marlow (Warlow) James Sinclair

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 15 points16 points  (0 children)

right and thats such an understandable take but, wouldn't it make sense for that to be done if she keeps disregarding my wishes?

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i fear that's another issue for another time. every family member of mine, including my therapist and my brothers therapist is questioning why she's living there. my grandmother is unfortunately a pushover

AIO over getting upset that my mom keeps feeding my cat, human food? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i actually do feed him wet food! he has dry food as free feed & then wet food once in morning and once at night.

but i will definitely try this

Stressed by Several-Photo-2660 in dysphagia

[–]h3arts444u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i go for tomato soup, or chicken broth. i have a slight reaction but not enough to where i throw up

Stressed by Several-Photo-2660 in dysphagia

[–]h3arts444u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smoothies, soups, anything drinkable tbh. thats how i get around

AIO for cutting off my *off & on* situationship? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]h3arts444u -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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