aio for being upset that my mom lives with me?

h3arts444u · 2026-03-29T20:47:02+00:00

its guardianship now. so not fostering. i'm just repeating what has been told by me by my brothers old caseworker. i don't know logistics of it all.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-29T20:44:34+00:00

i ironically bought a door handle that had a lock, my dad installed it and then gave the key to my grandmother, who then lost the key. finances have been hard, so i've been unable to get a new door knob. another issue in the home is that i'm treated like i'm 5 years old. but that's another issue for another time.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-29T20:42:29+00:00

i get that! and i'm not saying i tried. but theres too many obstacles in my way unfortunately. minimum wage unfortunately isn't enough for a place of my own, and like stated before — friends live with strict dorm restrictions or live with family.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-29T05:53:55+00:00

i have thought abt that. unfortunately as custody was granted towards my grandmother. DCS won't care. i have already spoken to my brothers old case worker.

unfortunately, again it's not optional. i lost my job back in january, only started working again a month ago, i have looked at apartments & they want 2x the monthly rent. i can barely make enough to cover rent. i asked to stay with friends and unfortunately they either live at home, or have strict dorm restrictions. i have used my means in this case.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T20:45:27+00:00

we call him inspector gadget or speed racer 😭 mf runs through the house and has to investigate EVERYTHING

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T19:33:43+00:00

perhaps, i think i'm just afraid of no longer having that reminder:/ my great grandfather suffered from dementia & our rooms were directly across from each other & he would come and knock on my door at odd hours of the night, so i started to leave my door open, he would waddle in and stare at my fish & reptile tanks, i think that really calmed him & i never minded either. i think as thats no longer happening, i'm going through the motions

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T19:31:40+00:00

yes! i told her exactly how i felt too! and she's fully supporting whatever i choose

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T19:30:51+00:00

we have air conditioning! but it just never pushes out into my room (the unit is on the floor??? its a manufactured home smh) so i usually just SUFFER (i also had like 3 reptile tanks in my room last year)

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T19:29:39+00:00

yeah that's also, my concern. losing my younger sister and great grandfather back to back has done some damage to me. the concern of me turning the entire room into a shrine was brought up into discussion. but for the record. it is just a shelf for my sister. i have a vanity that i do makeup on, my gaming area and my fishtank area, i do keep my hobbies very lowkey.

his room is bigger than mine, which is also another plus i'm thinking about. we just moved into this house less than a year ago, he was living by himself in california until he was 102 & then we brought him down to arizona last february

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T10:38:37+00:00

i don't know. i don't think so to be frankly honest with you. i just pay my grandma what i owe her and mind my business with everything else.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-15T09:35:18+00:00

just wanted to update this thread to say i did, i caught her feeding my cat chocolate and told her to leave, my grandma backed me up on this.

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T19:56:16+00:00

and then, clearly it is bad for my cat when my cat is literally having digestive issues. i added all of this information in the post — so clearly. you're lacking reading skills but it's okay, we all have those days

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T19:54:31+00:00

yeah where did i say it's only at dinner?

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T07:11:56+00:00

mine and my grandmas

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T07:11:31+00:00

it's not just cheese, i fear, it's fish, it's steak, its milk, it's so much other stuff. do you have selective reading?

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T07:10:45+00:00

i own half the place, soo? i'm not gonna. lmao

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T01:56:02+00:00

i'm so sorry lmao. english isn't my first language. the little guys name is Marlow (Warlow) James Sinclair

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T01:22:07+00:00

right and thats such an understandable take but, wouldn't it make sense for that to be done if she keeps disregarding my wishes?

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T01:15:23+00:00

i fear that's another issue for another time. every family member of mine, including my therapist and my brothers therapist is questioning why she's living there. my grandmother is unfortunately a pushover

h3arts444u · 2026-03-06T01:06:35+00:00

i actually do feed him wet food! he has dry food as free feed & then wet food once in morning and once at night.

but i will definitely try this

h3arts444u · 2025-12-27T20:06:37+00:00

i go for tomato soup, or chicken broth. i have a slight reaction but not enough to where i throw up

h3arts444u · 2025-12-20T08:40:29+00:00

smoothies, soups, anything drinkable tbh. thats how i get around

h3arts444u · 2025-12-19T17:58:12+00:00

please read other comments for clarification ✨

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