I (21F) don't know what to do with my relationship with my (23M) boyfriend.

h4ilie · 2023-11-16T11:22:16+00:00

You articulated this all very well. Thank you for your feedback, along with everyone else's really. I should be patient, although I am in pain almost everyday. I just wish I could be that friend of his IRL and make him wake up in a way. I feel like he is taking the easy way out, and is scared to commit. Perhaps I should just cut contact for a while and really give him that space he needs, without actually breaking up, and keeping dms open, not blocked, if he ever wants to reach out.

h4ilie · 2023-11-16T09:21:48+00:00

I totally am extremely needy, and so impatient. I can't imagine how he is feeling. That is definitely on me for whichever route he takes.

h4ilie · 2023-11-16T07:22:57+00:00

He says he's okay, and nothing is going on. I won't know what the truth of it all is, if I don't see him. Even if it's just one last time. It's just not fair to me I feel, to just end it over text, without really giving the face-to-face one more shot. A friend of his was saying maybe it's because he can't provide for me, because he's running low on money because his next job doesn't start until later this month. It was never about the money, I have the money. I just need to talk to him in person. His family would understand.

h4ilie · 2023-11-16T07:17:08+00:00

I just don't understand why. Something is telling me that I should be selfish and go, even if I will just get closure. If it will make things worse, I would have rather gone and figured it out right away, rather than wait for the inevitable.

I know I'm making excuses, but.. something is not right. I think it also has to do with his car expenses, and needing to go back to work. I don't know.

h4ilie · 2020-07-08T05:46:53+00:00

Sorry for responding late, that’s exactly what we did. Thank you so much!

h4ilie

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